Sometimes my boyfriend says he gets so busy that he can't even send me a single text or call me quickly. I don't even know if anyone can get THAT busy, but I'm trying to stay open-minded here. I REALLY do NOT want to sound clingy when I talk to him about this either. I just would like to know he still exists sometimes lol. How do I have this conversation with him, in the nicest and least clingyest way possible?
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It sounds like he's already explained that he gets really busy. I would guess he already knows you want him to contact him more as well. You could remind him again how you don't like that and maybe he'll want to make an extra effort to text you more. He may just want to be right and even if he could text you more he may not want to to spite you if you know what I mean. I mean he wants to have that control rather than you telling him what to do. I would do it in a way to let him know how it makes you feel and for him to feel like he's making the choice to be nice to you by texting. Even if he's really busy I doubt he has literally no time to text you (is he Obama or something?) so I don't think what you ask is unreasonable. Who knows why he doesn't text.0