So I know that I am not the only human being on the planet that never had a date at 17 years old.
I am also aware that it is frequently ask question and that my little insecurity is nothing compared to others.
Although I am just curious why I never had a date or why no one ever flirted with me.
I am 5 foot tall, in good shape and asian, (many says I look Korean or Japanese).I would say I dress well, I am complimented a lot on my clothing. I am in college in the art program, so sometimes I dressed like a hipster and I hang out with artistic people.
. I have a French accent when I speak English, I admit that I am a shy person and that it is not easy to get to know me. Most importantly, I am not stupid, I am honest, calm, and I am always nice with people.
In the halls, I always noticed that guys give a quick glance at me and sometimes hear "this Asian is cute" when they passed by me...
I never flirted,dated or kissed someone before.
I don't understand why it never occurred. Are guys intimidated by me or just have no interest?
So guys and girls, what do you think?
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After your description I can only say on thing: Will you marry me ? Off course we will go on a date first.
Because a lot of guys these days are pussyes and are afraid to talk to a girls even if they find them attractive.
Another thing that might count a little, is because you're Asian. Because of their culture, Asian peoples are usually overly polite and more shy. Because of that, some boys may think that is harder to get to you, and that you may be boring, weird.
Try to be a bit more outgoing, act just a little bit slutty, give a fun vibe. Try to have fun yourself in everything you do. Also if you like a guy, just go for it. Its nothing wrong with that.
Next time when guys pass near you and you hear them saying that you're cute, go back after them and tell to that guy something like this "Dude, if you think I'm cute why haven't you told me that, try to know me/take me out. You're such a pussy" :)
You're only 17, you have plenty of time to go on dates. Don't worry.