So I met this girl online, talked for a week, went out had a amazing first, got her flowers never stopped talking. She left for a week to take her BAR exam, gave her space, started talking again the week she came back. Went out again, had a great date we both admit we had a lot of fun that night. but I feel like I missed not making a move. Now when I talk to her she's talking less, we are suppose to go out again this Sat. I've always planned to make my move on the 3rd date. I just didn't wanna jump her bones on the 2nd date cuz we had not seen each other in 2 weeks, I think it would have been weird. I really like her and respect her to much for that. I just wanted to wait for the 3rd date, but with the flow of convo this week I don't know if that will happen. At this point the only thing I can think of is to give her space until asking her out for the 3rd date. Im a little confused and worried, any advice or opinions would be great TY
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I know you asked for female advice dude but they're not going to help. They're going to be nice to you, well, most of them... and just tell you what you want to hear. Some women are straight up and are going to tell you the following:
Kick back. You're doing well, give space, you're on the right track. Don't explain anything to anybody- that's indicative of weakness. Just ask her out and finally make your move; in all honesty you should have kissed her on the second date because the timing would have been perfect.
it's great that you respect her and whatever else but you have to respect yourself too. You have to let her know that you're there, you have to have a presence. If you're too busy holding back and "respecting" her then it just looks like you're uninterested and the flirtation level goes down... dopamine levels drop... lol.0