I met this girl while traveling abroad. We live in the same city and we seemed to get along well during that trip. Upon returning home we exchanged phone numbers and email. The next day I texted her just to say hi, she answered -thanks for writing, we keep in touch. A week later I called her, and she asked me out, but without specific date and time She told me her birthday was the next week. I texted her at 00:01 on her birthday, and she wrote me back in the morning thanking me for being the first one. A few hours later I called her to say hi and ask her out, again she told me she's going to be busy at work and that will call me. I waited 2 weeks and called her, she asked me again to do something together -but after two weeks because of some job issues. I waited two weeks and called her one sunday at 5pm and 9pm, the next day at noon, but no response. A few days I texted her, no response. Indeed busy? Playing hard to get? Mixed signals?
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Sounds like mixed signals.
You should leave her a voicemail being upfront with her. Say, listen I really want to get to know you but you aren't giving me the chance. If you're interested in getting to know me also, then lets make a date for real, no more bullsh*t. If she doesn't ever respond to your message then screw her! There are so much other girls out there.0