Am I discouraging this girl because I never have time to talk to her?
Every time She calls or messages me, I have to go.
She usually messages or calls right before I have to go do something.
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Yes, you did because we start to feel rejected or think the guy was just not that into us so to not look desperate or crazy, we call less which means we are convinced he's not into us. If you are really into her, call her and let her know when is the best time to call you. In reality, you do have time if you make time fdor her. You could easily call her or text on your way to and from your car or before you got to bed at night or even in the bathroom. There really is no good excuse for that because there are 24 hrs in a day. You can make time if you really wanted to no matter how busy you get. It takes less than a minute to text or call someone to just say "Hi how are you doing? just called to say I was thinking about you" That's it and that shows effort. So talk to her about it and contact her at least every other day.0