My boyfriend and I never had a serious talk about it before and where we stand. I felt it was necessary and brought it up. He was telling me our relationship has taken longer for him to develop feelings in comparison to others which isn't a bad thing because we are trying things differently. And it took time for him to miss me and sometimes he just really wants to be with me and then some timers he is ok being in his apt alone. And he knows feeling wise I really do love him, and he told me he was going to tell me he loves me but he wants to be 100% with that and sometimes he feels it and sometimes he doesn't - we realized that is an issue and he wants to try taking every route to work on that.
What are ways to have him realize if he loves or ever will or if that is not something that will happen?
Also is it bad that sometimes he does and sometimes he doesn't have the feelings there?
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Hmmm, I've been on your end before. My girlfriend at the time would be going through the motions. I thought it was her womanly emotions, but it was too constant.
In the end she didn't want to be in a relationship. She wanted to have fun and party. Not get tied down and not be able to do what she wants.
I'm not saying this could be what's happening in your case, but just brining my experience to the table.0