Throwing something like, "So hey, I think you're beautiful and I was wondering if you want to have lunch together...you know...like a lunch date. You and me - what do you say?" into a conversation.
Or is that too intense and straight-forward?
This is high school by the way.
And sorry, but I don't have much experience asking girls out, so sorry if I suck.
The thing is I want to make it clear that this is a date.
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't tell her that she's beautiful right there and then in such a straight forward way. I'd try and start a conversation with her. Keep it light and interesting, and when you're about to part ways, say something brief, but genuine, like "it was nice talking to you, would ypu be interested in having lunch with me sometime?"2
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Most Helpful Guy
Just ask her out but be subtle about it. Saying that she's beautiful is nice but comes off as way too strong. At least get to know her a little before going on a date. Get coffee or do something that you kiddos do these days. By you asking her out without knowing her much means that you are only attracted to her for her looks. For all you know, she could be a mean-hearted girl.1