Well there's this girl I met at the tennis club a few weeks ago and ever since we have made small talk on many occasions and I have given her a lot of compliments. Saying things like, "You look cute in that jacket," or, "I like your headband. It makes you look nice."
Today at lunch, we coincidentally made eye-contact and I was smiling and she threw me a smile and a wave. Then after lunch, I asked her how she was and stuff and how her weekend was, and then after that I asked, "So, would you be interested in having lunch together sometime?" and she was like, "Uhh...maybe...sure..." and here is where I made a mistake. I didn't know how to react, so I said, "Alright then, I will see you tomorrow."
I know - that was clumsy. I am thinking though, tomorrow if I see her before lunch, I will tell her that I will see her at lunch, and that will let me know if that "maybe" was a "yes" or a "no".
If I don't, I will just ask her if she wants to sit with me at one of the high tables (we have high tables at our school for small groups of people (2 or 3)).
But anyway, regardless, if in case it's a "yes", I was wondering if I could have some tips on how to act during the date and what I should talk about. I think I will be fine as far as physical contact goes. I will just be playful with her (but won't kiss her of course - I mean we're having lunch for heaven's sake). It's mainly the talking part I am a little worried about. Should I just talk about my daily life and ask about hers and what we have been up to and our "mini-rants" like, "Oh I totally bombed that history test yesterday," and maybe talk about family, our hobbies/interests, and stuff of the like?
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Here's the thing. You already have mad game for a sixteen year old so don't worry about it. Talk about whatever it is, sixteen year olds talk about. Like a kid that died at a crazy concert or rave or something like that. Could be anything, as long as it's a fun topic. Don't talk about how lunch tastes, how her day was, that's boring. Talk about teachers you hate, students you hate or like, who's hot or not, music, crazy stuff that happened at school like someone got pantsed in front of gym class. I can tell you are a thinker, you're an intelligent logical kid. And you're nervous because you think too much. For this time, you need to do the opposite, and not think and talk about fun stuff. That's the best advice I can give you. Your friend and pal baddy2shoos. Done.0