My girl, well ex girl really, has a job as a bar tender to pay for some of her university expenses, usually working nights.
When I visited her work the first time I realized what a bad neighborhood it was in and that a bad crowd hangs out there.
She has to go home at about 1 a.m. And walks many blocks to the subway and then drives home and walks again.
This drove me crazy with fear because let's face it NY isn't exactly the safest city for a 23 yr old woman at 1 am.
So I told her I would either pay for her cab to get home or pick her up. She was OK with this for a short time but started complaining and lying about taking a cab.
Out of the blue she ended it with me yesterday saying I was destroying her freedom etc.
I don't fee like I was unreasonable I just love her and was scared for her safety.
Do you think there is a way I can get her back, maybe if I try to change and become more relaxed?
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Maybe try talking to her and expressing the fact that you care about her, hence you caring about her safety. There are two sides to a story. So, communicate with her if she allows it. But she may have feelings about things you didn't consider.0