In certain Asian culture, I've noticed that some girls expect guys to pay everything when they are dating..(not only for the first date... every single time..) but for me if guy pay for lunch then I would pay for coffee or dinner or movies, so guys that I went out with, found me really weird.. since I tried to pay for them. Do you think it is odd if girl try to pay for something on a date? or do you usually pay for everything when you are going out with a girl? may be just for a first date?
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Some guys do, but I honestly believe that is very unfair.
Firstly, some girls genuinely do not deserve to be treated like that. The guys can't see it yet because they haven't had enough exposure to her personality, but some girls are truly not deserving to have a guy take his hard earned money and use it so that she can have a free meal and a night of entertainment.
Second, that sh*t is EXPENSIVE. I don't know about you other girls, but I'd feel so GUILTY having a guy spend all that money on me.
I think girls should be willing to pay for the guy every once in a while. Especially if they're that spoiled type who expects to be payed for as if they're a cheap girl who can't afford her own meal. Ideally, both people would be generous and selfless enough to have each other's backs financially and help out when it came to dates.7
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