I only want find a new man who's got light eyes and medium or dark hair who's also intelligent to be my guy.
I am not saying I'm soooo picky, it's just what I like, but I feel like it's never the type of guy I like asking me out lately.
And I've had 3-4 guys approach me lately but none of them fit that description, or were even close :(
As guys, do you have a type yet find the wrong girls hitting on you?
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When it comes to your requirements for a guy, you are welcome to have whatever requirements that you wish. However, you need to understand and accept that the more requirements you have, the fewer men are going to meet them, and the harder it is going to be for you to find a match.
Your options are these:
1. remain single for a long time hoping the right guy will come along.
2. relax your standards so that more guys are acceptable.
3. take a much more active role in finding exactly the type of guy that you want, rather than just waiting for them to come to you.
#3 means you need to get on some dating sites, build a quality profile that describes what you're looking for, and what you have to offer in return (remember: you are essentially selling yourself, so you have to be providing a similar value to the guy as he's providing to you). It means being active on those sites, responding to emails, etc. It also means going to events in your area where singles are likely to be, and actively meeting guys. You have to put yourself out there in an active way so that you can "process" a LOT of guys, because when your target is so narrow, it's really a numbers game, and the more guys you meet, the more likely you'll find a guy who matches your requirements.2
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