It seems like girls are able to suddenly and dramatically change their feelings toward a guy. I've dated multiple girls who acted like or flat-out told me I was the best thing that ever happened to them, but within a matter of a couple weeks "flipped a switch" and were done. My other friends have experienced the same thing. Why and how do girls do this?
Why do girls "flip a switch" so easily? Guys can't do that!
What Girls Said 15
You clearly don't know guys like we do. You have no idea how many guys also "flip a switch". In fact this is the most common problem I've had with men in the past, and so did my friends too. So men do this too. You just don't realize it cause you're not the one dating them. People do this when they are not ready for commitment, realize they don't have feelings for you or just want to have fun but sense that you're falling in too deep and therefor need to create distance. It's not a gender issue. It's a personality issue.2
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They didn't flip just like that. It took them a couple of weeks. But that's what dating is! It's getting to know someone and seeing if they're right for you. They liked you but then something happened to make them change their minds. That's perfectly normal. If it wasn't , we would all be married to the first person we ever went on a day with2
IDK! We are more complicated than guys. I really don't drop guys like that but sometimes they read too much into the relationship.
If girls don't want to have sex with a guy it rarely means they don't like them.
That's a two way street though, meaning if some guy doesn't want sex from us we are all freaking out. LLOL! It is true.0
Because I feel like the girls are either confused, playing you, or are getting a bad vibe from you. But to be honest, a lot of girls just like the attention.0
I so totally agree with XRabbitHeartX, on this. You guys can go from "I love you , you are the most beautiful, sexy thing etc..." to completely ignoring us as if we never meant shit to you. we must be learning it from you, guys.0
some girls are very emotional and when hormones kick in they can flip a swich0
Because we are sensitive, insecure and we psychoanalyze things .0
Probably did something we didn't like. offended us .we saw u doing something gross .saw u flirting with a girl. Start liking another guy . U acting like a jerk0
as a girl, we go through things with other people. just because we're mad and putting it all on you guys, doesn't mean we're mad at you, we just trust you with our info. a lot of girls talk, maybe she heard something she didn't want to know about you. or you didn't take "the hint" and she got mad and left you.0
We can't.after a breakup we are messes you know the cliche if girls watching romance movie bawling and eating tubs of ice cream after a breakup. It's true. If we date right after, they are our rebounds. We want to feel lived agai. We act like we're over it but really are torn up inside. Even if we do the breaking up.0
It could be the guy is playing games, not following through on things they say. Some guys get shadey, others pull back more than likely it's because, the lack of communication. Or making empty promises. When a woman suddenly, well you think it suddenly cause some guys don't pay attention when a woman talks it's always looked at like she's nagging. But, when she have enough of the unsure behavior, or whatever I'm sure she expressed it's to late. We blow up and now don't wanna be bothered, we get upset talking about the same problem over and over. Why is it you guys don't seem to get it until then? Until we blow up and want to be Done, why is it you men don't get it or do something to change until after the fact?1
We are girls, we change our minds like we change underwear! It's hard for us to make up our mind and stay with it! But boy when we do make up our minds, you aren't changing it no matter what.
Also, some of it may come from the fact that we know we can do it and get away with it. 😩0
What Guys Said 5
It's not girl specific, it's probably just infatuation.0
It can be any number of reasons. It could have been a crush, and infatuation, or she may have just enjoyed the attention she was getting.1
the girl im currently into, is on her you know what. she's not mad at me, she's just cranky because she's in pain. dont let their mood swings get to you0
Guys do this too but id say it has more to do with people on the rebound or people that dont know what they want.
I had a girl rebound on me last summer and it was shitty because we had a ton in common and she was gorgeous as well. First week she worshipped the ground i walked on then the next week she wanted nothing to do with me and left as if nothing happened between us without saying anything. Never date a newly single person. It will mess with your head especially if you dont know going in.0
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