Is it possible to develop feelings over time or is it only when you first meet them?
Most Helpful Girl
I can never have feelings for someone I just met. I can think he is attractive for whatever qualities he possesses, I can like his demeanor, but I can't even develop a crush, let alone any deeper feelings.
In order to care for any guy romantically, I have to go out/hang out with him and get to know him.
And it doesn't matter whether I found him attractive at first glance, or not. Out of numerous former crushes, I only found one guy attractive, before I started actually liking him. All the others caused me to develop feelings, while I didn't even notice them as male humans prior to getting to know them.0