How do I do this, how do I finally put the ball in her court?

Was dating this girl who had a lot of baggage from her previous relationship. It was all going well then suddenly she got scared and backed off. She has no self worth whatsoever. I have tried to reassure her but i'm getting nowhere fast and although not giving up, i need to put the ball firmly in her court.
Any ideas on how to tell her how I feel, put an end to the chasing, but leave the door open for her?


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  • Open-ended supportive notion. "I will be here if you choose to return, and I understand your [reasons&logic] and don't want to put pressure on you but I am more than ready to be a listening ear if you need one. I want to help you both as a friend and hopefully someday as a [partnerlevel]."