myTakes: Dating
Why Women Love The Alpha Male
The idea that women are universally attracted to "Alpha Males" is a stereotype and doesn't accurately represent the complexities of human attraction. However, there are some theories that attempt to explain why certain...
Bring up kids early in dating... Like the first date!
Okay ladies and gentlemen, I hope this helps somebody. As a bartender for 15 years, and a guy who has been with a lot of women, and a guy that has coached countless people at the bar through marriage, divorce, children,...
Reasons men should date military women
1. Strength and resilience: Women in the military undergo intense physical and mental training, making them strong and resilient partners. They can handle challenging situations and provide support during difficult times....
Why I Prefer Older Women Over Younger
I believe I wrote about this once. But doing it again anyway in 2024 lol, plus a few olders on here have asked me to write this repeatedly so here we are lol. I know a lot of men want young women, but for me I...
If she’s texting you nonstop there’s a 99% chance she likes you bro
If a girl (or guy for that matter) is always texting you and you two are just having a back and forth conversation through text all day that they are mostly engaged in, then she probably likes you. I don’t really get...
"just do things you enjoy and you'll meet people" = Most out of touch dating advice
As stated in the title that advice is garbage. If your goal is to meet people naturally away from work then its always better to place yourself where they want to hang out, rather than where you want to hang out. For...
In dating is it bullshit when they break it off and say it is due to you making assumptions. Or was it just some game play to test you?
I always say never make assumptions. Never assume the worst, but never assume the best. By and large this is good advice, but is it? When your gut is telling you something is off what do you do? You have to make a...
My First Time Meeting An Online Girl
I had been interacting with this girl on Facebook for a while. Unlike other online girls I've talked to in the past, this girl went to my old high school and had class with my old science teacher, so I at least knew she...
Guys... why it's important to SMELL GOOD on a FIRST DATE.
This is a short myTake, prompted by this YouTube short ... https://www.youtube.com/embed/YNJaivSdi8M The most important thing for a guy on the first date is to smell good. Why? Because the first hole he will penetrate is...
In Dating There Is No Such Thing As "Mixed Signals"
People often find themselves confused about whether the person they're attracted to, talking to, or dating reciprocates their feelings. This uncertainty often stems from what seem to be mixed signals, particularly when...
Online Dating: Time waisters
So I am on a run again, and here we go....! People turn to online dating for a variety of reasons. They are lonely. They are recently single and want to see what else is out there. They have hear rumors and are curious...
Dating is hard, getting a date can be hard, try not to be hard on yourself
Some people get discouraged when they get rejected, or they feel like people just don't find them attractive, well, it's hard. You could know 10 people your age, and you could be attracted to 6 of them. They may all like...
She texts, makes phone calls daily... but is super nervous about setting up a coffee date after second week of talking. Why it's a relationship killer.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/_X6YXS8UB1M This My Take is written specifically in regards to people who connect online. This has nothing to do a people that you know in real life or had previous relationship with. I want...
Traits of a High Value Man vs. a High Value Woman... what to look for and how to handle one when you find one.
www.theadultman.com/love-and-lust/high-value-woman/ As you look at the two lists of what makes a high value woman and man individually, they look pretty similar, but as you start comparing the two lists against each...
5 Tests That Women Use On Men, That Men Should Stop Tolerating While Dating.
These are what i refer to as shit tests. It shows an extreme lack of maturity and honestly are strong indicators or what the future will be with this person, and strong indicators of mental disorders like BPD and NPD, as...
Have you ever dated a widow or widower?
When I was 63, I was invited to a Christmas party in a condo at Jacksonville Beach and almost everyone in attendance was fairly affluent. I am not a rich man but I wasn't uncomfortable with that crowd. I met a woman...
u I have dated a lot of women, and either I am Self-Centered, or they are Self-Absorbed. What's the difference and what is worse?
Self-Absorbed - people see their interests and adventures through their own eyes. They assume what's fascinating to them is fascinating to others. They assume other people value the same things they do.......
My Additional Dating Red Flags
Here's additional dating red flags I need to pay attention to. If you are curious or open-minded, I invite you to read myTake. 1. Flirty Woman I don't see a flirty woman as a girlfriend material because I see it as a...
Better to date transgirls? My short analysis
Disclaimer: This is not to convince you to date transgirls. If you are not interested in (dating) transgirls even for just 0.01% right now, this is probably not the reading material for you. Disclaimer 2: I still love...
My Dating Red Flags
Here are at least 5 dating red flags I need to pay attention to. If you are open minded or interested in myTake, I invite you to read myTake. 1. A Woman Who's Been Divorced At Least Once If she went through divorce at...
