Do whatever makes you happy. If you don't want people to comment on your lifestyle... then don't make a big deal out of it. Why do you need acceptance anyways? Who cares what we think?
I think that there is nothing wrong in what you believe, it is just the average behavior of the people that makes the 'trend', but everyone has the right to follow it (sheeps 😉) or not.
Because Feminism= the system. A tool used by the system to destroy the foundations of traditional family, while at the same time they promote gay marriage and forced 3rd world immigration with anti racism to give an end to western civilisation.
well am happy that your seem content with your life "its not how i would live mine" i do agree that i wish people would just let people live how they want to live "this coming form someone who has a mother who is the working form home man and her husband is the remain att home wife who cooks for my mom"
"I don't sit there and ridicule the women who have completely destroyed their lives and the lives of many men on the simple fact that they think they are far more superior than them! " End Quote.
Just what do you think you have done.. Right Here.
So the fact that I'd like to have a say in my marriage makes me a feminist now? Duly noted.
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No. It doesn't. I don't know how people are turning this around and making out like I am a horrible person for wanting to go about my marriage my way. I should have elaborated further and I realize that now. 3 of my coworkers are extreme feminists, or feminists in disguise. Either way, these are truly the only people I associate with aside from my husband and children. And they are the ones making ignorant comments regarding the way I choose to treat my husband and marriage. My post was rather hostile and I realize that. It was just that today set me off. I was told by one of these women that I am part of the reason why women these days are oppressed and have no rights. Because apparently its women like me that make men feel like they are the more dominant gender.
Well I don't think that you're coworkers are right. And quite frankly, it's none of their business. Your marriage is between you and your husband. Period. If that's the role you want to play in your marriage, that's your prerogative.
I don't think people are upset about that, I think that it's because of how you worded it. In trying to prove your point you ended up being more offensive than anything else.
"So the fact that I'd like to have a say in my marriage makes me a feminist now" ehm well ya. And that's a good thing. Do you have any idea what marriages were like before feminism?
You were literally property. And I don't mean choosing to be treated like property, like asker does. But acutal property in every sense of the word. That's why there was no rape within marriage, or illegal violence, he could even kill and that'd be his right. And everything asker described was true as well, just that it was the law. You had no right to an opinion or make decisions for yourself
This is why it baffles me, when women think being called feminist is a bad thing. I mean do you even know where we come from. I mean I think it's great women takes all those things for granted these days, but geez do people have no concept of history or even current issues anymore. Because that is still how marriage is in many countries. And if you guys wanting better makes you undateable, what good are they really
if you want to live like that by all means go ahead if severing men is what you enjoy and being treated like a second class citizen no one is stopping you. Just because you enjoy it doesn't mean all women do.
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What you are describing here is the reality of feminism today. What most women claim feminism to be, i. e., gender equality, really has nothing to do with feminism. That dictionary definition is nothing more than a unicorn.
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Do whatever makes you happy. If you don't want people to comment on your lifestyle... then don't make a big deal out of it. Why do you need acceptance anyways? Who cares what we think?
Everyone can choose the way the want to live their life. People shouldn't judge you for your decision and you shouldn't judge others for theirs.
I think that there is nothing wrong in what you believe, it is just the average behavior of the people that makes the 'trend', but everyone has the right to follow it (sheeps 😉) or not.
Because Feminism= the system.
A tool used by the system to destroy the foundations of traditional family, while at the same time they promote gay marriage and forced 3rd world immigration with anti racism to give an end to western civilisation.
well am happy that your seem content with your life "its not how i would live mine" i do agree that i wish people would just let people live how they want to live "this coming form someone who has a mother who is the working form home man and her husband is the remain att home wife who cooks for my mom"
I trust you have heard the saying.. "Live And Let Live" .. Enough said I believe.
Oh and just one more thing, and I quote
"I don't sit there and ridicule the women who have completely destroyed their lives and the lives of many men on the simple fact that they think they are far more superior than them! " End Quote.
Just what do you think you have done.. Right Here.
So the fact that I'd like to have a say in my marriage makes me a feminist now? Duly noted.
No. It doesn't. I don't know how people are turning this around and making out like I am a horrible person for wanting to go about my marriage my way. I should have elaborated further and I realize that now. 3 of my coworkers are extreme feminists, or feminists in disguise. Either way, these are truly the only people I associate with aside from my husband and children. And they are the ones making ignorant comments regarding the way I choose to treat my husband and marriage. My post was rather hostile and I realize that. It was just that today set me off. I was told by one of these women that I am part of the reason why women these days are oppressed and have no rights. Because apparently its women like me that make men feel like they are the more dominant gender.
Well I don't think that you're coworkers are right. And quite frankly, it's none of their business. Your marriage is between you and your husband. Period. If that's the role you want to play in your marriage, that's your prerogative.
I don't think people are upset about that, I think that it's because of how you worded it. In trying to prove your point you ended up being more offensive than anything else.
"So the fact that I'd like to have a say in my marriage makes me a feminist now" ehm well ya. And that's a good thing. Do you have any idea what marriages were like before feminism?
You were literally property. And I don't mean choosing to be treated like property, like asker does. But acutal property in every sense of the word. That's why there was no rape within marriage, or illegal violence, he could even kill and that'd be his right. And everything asker described was true as well, just that it was the law. You had no right to an opinion or make decisions for yourself
This is why it baffles me, when women think being called feminist is a bad thing. I mean do you even know where we come from. I mean I think it's great women takes all those things for granted these days, but geez do people have no concept of history or even current issues anymore. Because that is still how marriage is in many countries. And if you guys wanting better makes you undateable, what good are they really
And as for asker, for future reference, if it bothers you so much, don't go share the details of your marriage with people you can't stand.
@nalaa never said I thought it was a bad thing. I'm not big on labels tho.
Lol I'd say you're ruining the female image way more than the feminists, lady.
if you want to live like that by all means go ahead if severing men is what you enjoy and being treated like a second class citizen no one is stopping you. Just because you enjoy it doesn't mean all women do.
What you are describing here is the reality of feminism today. What most women claim feminism to be, i. e., gender equality, really has nothing to do with feminism. That dictionary definition is nothing more than a unicorn.
You care too much what people think of you.
So, you like the colour green? Now everybody has to like the colour green? Sorry, doesn't work like that, I'm afraid.
FCKING THANK YOU. A women with some sense.
I am not a feminists!