You can go whatever game you want you can even make other game better.
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The game you described is Star Wars Galaxies, dude.
It closed down officially in 2011, but you can still play it via player-run servers if you want to give it a try:
You might also consider Star Trek Online, which is actively supported and allows you to do everything you describe above (albeit in the ST universe)
For me, it looks like it's already being made in the form of Star Citizen. Elite: Dangerous is a good attempt but too many bad design decisions have spoiled it.