Boyfriend is (subconsciously) more attracted to me when I'm on my period?

For a couple of months now I've noticed something that kind of surprised me. For starters, my boyfriend doesn't know when I'm on my period because I choose not to discuss it with him. But... whenever I am on my period he always makes comments that he finds me prettier than usual and seems to be in the mood for sex more often. Why is this? Am I making this up or is it true that most guys are attracted to girls more when they're on their period? Thanks everyone! :)
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  • Incidentally, that happens to me, as well.

    I generally know my girlfriend's cycle, as she's pretty open about discussing it with me. However, I don't usually know the exact moment she starts, obviously.

    We've noticed that I tend to get more... amorous, when she's on it, though. Even when I don't know that she's started. We'll be sitting at home, together, and I'll just get inexplicably horny, being with her.

    It's actually become something of a joke/early warning system, with us, lol. If I start getting handsy, or really horny, she'll laugh, and go grab a tampon, because she knows that means she about to start.

    Other times, I'll be more verbal, telling her how much I want her, right now, and she'll say she knows, because she's on her period.

    • That's exactly what happens to my boyfriend & me!! :) I think he has a built in system that just detects it aha and he always gets super horny when it's that time of the month lol :P

    • Haha, I always thought it was just me. You ladies must have some crazy strong pheromones. 😄

    • I read somewhere that guys have sensitive noses lol and can actually smell when a girl is on her period but don't realize that's what they're smelling :P It's strange hearing that there might be some truth to that lol :)

  • If you're having sex during your period, how can he not know? Anyway, we can tell when wives/girlfriends are on the rag. We notice your mood changes. Plus, you have a very noticeable metallic smell. He might just be acting extra nice so that you don't fly off on some hormone rage.

    • You misunderstood what I said lol :) Sometimes he'll want more sex than usual and that coincidentally happens when I am on my period. My personality actually doesn't change when I'm on my period and I hardly ever have mood swings. Plus he makes those comments before he knows I'm on my period

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  • My boyfriend would always offer to have sex with me when im on my period cause he said it'll help to lessen the pain. But im really not up to that idea. I think its jut weird and messy.

    • Yeah, I usually don't want to have sex when I'm on my period because it just feels messy and unromantic lol :) He doesn't seem to mind though... lol

    • Well, if he really wants it then go for it. you won't lose anything if u give it a try. Maybe you'll like it. We'll never know. Do it in the shower.😀

  • Woah never heard of it before but there could be some biological explanation for it.. or maybe he notices something is off about you and is extra nice? Idk? Weird but kinda interesting!

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  • pheromones.

  • Most likely pheromones that you're giving off

  • Weird

  • Women release pheromones during their period that generally cause men to be slightly more attracted to them. Plus their boobs get slightly bigger (it's a booby trap!).

    • Lol :) Booby trap. Good point & yes boobs do get bigger when a girl is on her period :)

  • ON your period or two days prior i. e. fertile AF and have those clear eyes, redder skin, full lips... y'know the *&(# women try to replicate with make up.

    Could also be a masochist who enjoys your emotional ass lol.

    • Good explanation lol :) You might have a point actually. I don't experience mood swings on my period but I do feel more emotional & cuddle more often aha :)

  • DA PHEROMONESSSS

    • That must be it lol :)

    • We're human beings after all!

  • maybe pheromones like the person commented earlier and I don't think that most guys find women attractive more when they are on their period because we're too busy trying to avoid the mood switches or please you. hahah

  • Because you are probably more assertive and less passive.

    • I actually become more soft and cry a lot easier aha :P

    • then he prefers your submissive side.

  • It's true from what I know

  • Pheremones

  • smell is a factor in attraction.
    maybe you period personality is better to him?

  • Your boyfriends a fking vampire, run

    • I was waiting for this comment LOL :)

  • I think you release more pheromones