100 Reasons Why I am Not Having Kids and Won't Change My Mind

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100 Reasons Why I am Not Having Kids and Won't Change My Mind

In this crazy and out of control world, where everyone is obsessed with having children the childfree make a vast minority of the population it seems. I know not one person in real life, who is as childfree as I am. I only know a few gagers here like (how she likes to be called) auntie @Ozanne who also gave advise to the childfree folks in one of her mytakes.

@Daynada has inspired me to make this mytake :) I thank her for it.

Anyway here are the full 100 mother-effin reasons why I am not going to have any kids:

1. Having children conflicts with my actual long term life plans

I have other plans. Traveling, finding and establishing my own home so that I am resilient to poverty threats. Children are not part of it. I want to do fun things and swim and explore and many things.

2. I am broke and have no money

Kids cost tons of money! Which I don't have. I am so poor, that I am actually often malnourished.

3. Kids are not worth it

4. Kids are too much effort and drains you

Your own well being is inevitably going to take a toll!

5. I don't get paid much.

My job is good, I feel safe and more-or-less happy doing it. The average pay however doesn't cover my cost of living.

6. I don't want to deal with kids as a father

7. I deserve peace

Rarely I have lived under peace. I have only had short time frames of peace and I'm addicted to peace.

8. Having children ≠ the purpose of life

9. I don't want to bring anyone else into this dominated world

10. The kids would just go through all suffering and pain like I have

100 Reasons Why I am Not Having Kids and Won't Change My Mind

11. I survived poverty and I don't want anyone else to be forced to

I was VERY poor growing up and I lived in a household family with tiny income. It has damaged me and has manifested my mindset as a reason why I couldn't be successful with women.

12. I'm not completely out of poverty

13. Global financial crisis and broken economics

14. Everyone is indebted. Well, many are

Why are most in debts and have to take credits? I don't have debts but I don't want anyone else becoming a product of our poor finances.

15. (a) We are completely dominated by the government and taken full advantage of

Think about it: Why are we even working full time and obey so many (useless) laws? So we can make a modest middle-class living. Which leads me to

16. (b) We are taxpaying peasants basically

Oh the great illusion, that kids grow up to become the next scientist to cure cancer 🙄 I bet good money, that it will be another taxpaying (and maybe even indebted) peasant like the rest of us so the government can do as it's pleases with it and won't resolve their nation's debts.

17. (c) We are expendable

Men are soldiers, who fight and die and survive in wars. Women? They are what I would call the incubators to spawn more soldiers and future incubators or be factory workers like war prisoners. Sorry but "the truth" hurts.

18. We have no freedom and no privacy

Our freedom gets taken away piece by piece. Internet resources being banned, censorships, access to information being restricted, mass surveillance etc... Russia even banned the usage of proxies and VPNs! China banned social media. They don't want it's citizen to unveil truths or other sides of stories.

19. I am not feeling like extending my family tree 😑

20. I hate the governments, who have dominated us all.
100 Reasons Why I am Not Having Kids and Won't Change My Mind

Which means if I bring any more children in this world then they will also be dominated.

21. Humanity is the most destructive species on earth /!\

22. We are already overpopulated and face overpopulation problems

23. Religion

A mass crowd control and manipulation tool abusing "the holy power" to do the bidding of a sect. Call it what you like.

24. Television

Another mass crowd control and manipulation tool, utilized by the media and being influenced by the government.

25. No help for the poor

Is that what will happen to us when we're poor? What about the poor kids? (There are foster homes but not everywhere)

26. The earth is going to sh*t!

Thanks to humanity and the governments. The earth will be rendered uninhabitable.

27. I'm a loser... well, not really

My battles aren't won but I fight daily. I'm not in a good position right now in my life and have almost never been.

28. Having kids is too sacrificing

29. Having kids seems, that everyone wants. Especially women 😒

30. We are very often being lied to

Life can not be complete without kids? Really?

100 Reasons Why I am Not Having Kids and Won't Change My Mind

31. What happened to the free-thinkers?

32. There are not enough childfree members

33. There are no warranties whatsoever

I'm not taking a potentially high-failure rate risk, what my child will independently do.

34. I see no point in reproducing

35. I had a Miserable childhood experience

36. I have unresolved medical conditions

Which I cannot afford to resolve

37. My fate was put upon me

I am what I am today because my parents wanted me to, which also leads me to...

38. I got to be a rebel

39. Children are no sources of pleasure for me

40. Disturbingly unnecessary "Laws"

18 years being the age of legally being an adult. Why not earlier? Those years before that number cannot be put under control by the suffering person (who for example wants to work to afford stuff, that their parents can't like food and clothes)

100 Reasons Why I am Not Having Kids and Won't Change My Mind

41. It's lesser problems to get worked up about

42. Responsibilities!

I have enough responsibilities! I don't need any more. I don't want to respond for whatever crime someone else has committed.

43. Kids can highly likely turn out terrible

There are good chances, that due to stress and failures they can become the next Elliot Rodger or a gold digger using sugar daddies and renting her body. Anything can be.

44. Too many kids these days (and in my days) are depressed by default

And I still am

45. Trends

Memes, facebook likes, languages like "git rekt", "lol", "alpha males" and eks-dee (XD) being said in real life! What the actual F?!

46. Our (de)generation is degraded

47. Schooling systems and schools

Schools don't teach shit! Nowadays the internet is the only and gigantic source of knowledge. Am I right google and wikipedia?

48. Everything is about the MONEY! Well, almost everything.

Almost nothing is gifted! Friendship, generosity, loyalty, kindness and honesty. Those things are rare!

49. Do I really have to have kids?

And if so then who said so?

50. Vasectomy is much cheaper than the consequences of getting someone pregnant
100 Reasons Why I am Not Having Kids and Won't Change My Mind

(Yeah, I had to save this one and couldn't resist to post this meme above)

51. Lesser problems for the people

Lesser mouths to feed, take care of, provide etc... It won't be part of the statistics

52. Kids can cause possible further (legal) consequences

53. Being childfree doesn't mean hating kids. I'm an example

54. I really don't care (aside from being childfree)

55. Having children is being indoctrinated into us (See reason 31)

56. Kids are likely to disappoint their parents

57. And if they don't then the kids will resent their parents for controlling them too much

58. The earth has only so much resources

And soon the resources will deplete and a new war will break out.

59. And we are multiplying like the rabbits

60. As a father I would be FORCED to make even more money

That which I am making not enough already for me alone. Women get the privilege to stay at home.

100 Reasons Why I am Not Having Kids and Won't Change My Mind

61. I don't need children to be happy (See reason 1)

62. Children also consume an enormous amount of time

That which I have lost too much when I was legally not an adult and I couldn't use that time for something meaningful.

63. Children require too much energy and devotion

64. If you don't have kids, then how can you or anyone hurt them?

65. Or be abused and taken advantage of by our government?

66. I'm doing them a big favor by not bringing them here in the first place (ergo being selfless)

67. Less means more :) ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

for us.

68. Having kids changes your life forever and irreversibly

69. You will be legally CHAINED to your kids!

for 2 decades long! That's maybe a quarter or third of your entire life! Depending on your own health.

70. Being childfree is a very courageous act these days!

All too often we childfree folks get discriminated. There's nothing wrong with being childfree!

100 Reasons Why I am Not Having Kids and Won't Change My Mind

71. Chances are my kids will turn into losers like I am (well, not really)

72. Raising children does not mean, that I will manage to make them different/unique from the standard, that everyone else is

73. I am not family oriented

I am more like hedonistic and career-driven at the same time. So leave me be and look after your own kids.

74. My life's history is a little poor

But I did get to travel one time.

75. I don't have a place, that I can call my home!

I'm far away from my homeland Germany. I don't feel like home here at all (and I'm not in Iceland) even after almost 8 years!

76. I'm not missing out on anything.

77. Life's just much easier being childfree

78. It's just my choice to be... well, almost

My past experiences have manifested this choice for me at least and I feel 100% comfortable with it.

79. There's nothing wrong with being childfree

And so is deciding to have kids (provided you can raise them properly and have all the means to). It's a choice we make and we will live with it's aftermaths regardless! Like Demon Hunter said "Every scar is a choice you made. Every choice is a vow you took."

80. Lesser obligations to deal with

100 Reasons Why I am Not Having Kids and Won't Change My Mind

81. One way or another you will be abandoned by your children

At some point at least. Let's face it, we all will die but we don't know how or when. It could be tomorrow or in 1, 20 or 50 years.

82. Your children will have more than enough of life's difficulties and challenges too

83. Life has either little value or doesn't matter at all

We are very tiny and terminating organisms to the earth compared to meteors and asteroids

84. History repeats itself

Another birth, another death and the cycle just keeps repeating. I want to break mine.

85. The standard middle citizen class is not in a good position

We suffer and face the consequences of the choices, that those, who are above us make. It's vicious!

86. Your children may as well backstab you

Rarely but it happens

87. I have problems

And children are fortunately not part of it because I don't have them :)

88. There is so much more in this world than just having children

89. Having children is a very bad choice if you don't want them or can't provide for them

90. There's no need to

Because humans keep populating regardless whether we also reproduce or not. Well, there's a situation in Japan with the herbivore men but it's not a real threat. It's also about sending a message.

100 Reasons Why I am Not Having Kids and Won't Change My Mind

91. It's a terrible world!

Discrimination, murder, rape, violence, blackmails, terrorism... all of that is everywhere!

92. What would my children be doing anyway?

I'm poor and so are they and they have nothing else to do but to surf the internet, play video games and maybe watch porn like I do because the folks here are very poor and the prices for social activities are rising. They would resent me for bringing them here in the first place. I know I do.

93. The nations can't get along with each other

I expect more wars to happen. We may be close to a new world war. And we will all pay for it.

94. I'm not happy right now

And I'm depressed for over a decade. Children would be making it only much worse.

95. We are not missing anyone

Except for those, who have passed away or are far away.

96. Children can commit Suicide!

And all your efforts were wasted. You will clean up after that.

97. You may not get along with your children, maybe even at all

Which is my case sort of. I do it for my own safety and perseverance!

98. If you and/or your child becomes disabled when you are struggling gathering finances

It will NOT turn out well.

99. Your children can become criminals and/or degenerates without perspectives

And you - as a parent - will be forced to deal with it!

100. I love my freedom and independence too much

I wouldn't give up either for anything. It's either those two or nothing at all.

100 Reasons Why I am Not Having Kids and Won't Change My Mind

There! 100 reasons why I am not having kids!

This article is not meant to discriminate or convert or bother the natalists or those, who wish to become a mother or a father. It's just my personal article about my childfree stance and reasons why! No hate and no discrimination whatsoever for whoever thinks otherwise.

I hope you enjoyed it ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Auf wiedersehen!

100 Reasons Why I am Not Having Kids and Won't Change My Mind
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