sometimes i miss hanging out with female friends, but at this moment i am on my own. I used to have friends.
I have one friend who never wants to hang out in my home but Always wants to go out to dinner like twice a year, i never hear from her again and the meetings always feel like a bussines meeting.
I had one ''best'' friend who never really respect my boundaries and was pretty narcisstic, she used to call us best friends but she was only there with me when she wanted to have fun but she wasnted someone i could call in the middle of the night. We had a petty argument and she blocked me and dropped me just like that.
I had one friend who i used to go out with all the time but she was very aggressive and just a bad person, she attacked me while she was semi drunk. I dropped her immediatly.
I have one friend who i can only call because she isn't the most social person and just hangs out with her boyfriend, like she drops her girlfriends for her boyfriend. She isn't really fun.
At 25, i feel so lonely and sometimes i get down because i miss that female bonding time, my sisters are estranged so we dont talk anymore (and no its not possible to contact them)
What can i do? and why do i have such bad luck finding friends, its like its Always their way and no one sincerly cares about me.
Most Helpful Guy
It sadly happens the best thing you can do is accept that freinds often come and go while others are not worth your time and just keep looking for someone worth your time and effort.
It is not bad luck it is just that there are so many bad people in this world that are just selfish. Like dating it takes time effort and pain to find a gem.
I have lost several freinds who I thought I was close with only to learn that I'm not and if I never contact most of my freinds even the good ones they just won't ever contact me. That is how it is with most people. Do what you need and look for what you want till you find it in a good freind.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Whether it's online or by a family member, Id greatly encourage going SOMEWHERE to find new friends as soon as possible. I have a small group of close friends, but I tend to isolate myself naturally and get really lonely and sad when I don't have company for a certain period of time. I would find some new friends to spend time with ASAP so that you don't become too lonely. I'm sorry this isn't very helpful because my first answer is always "talk to people at school/college" but that most likely does not apply to you. Go out to places where you know other people have a mutual interest to make friends.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE