How to get over not having friends anymore?

[CheckPlease]

It sadly happens the best thing you can do is accept that freinds often come and go while others are not worth your time and just keep looking for someone worth your time and effort.
It is not bad luck it is just that there are so many bad people in this world that are just selfish. Like dating it takes time effort and pain to find a gem.

I have lost several freinds who I thought I was close with only to learn that I'm not and if I never contact most of my freinds even the good ones they just won't ever contact me. That is how it is with most people. Do what you need and look for what you want till you find it in a good freind.

[redmask38]

Whether it's online or by a family member, Id greatly encourage going SOMEWHERE to find new friends as soon as possible. I have a small group of close friends, but I tend to isolate myself naturally and get really lonely and sad when I don't have company for a certain period of time. I would find some new friends to spend time with ASAP so that you don't become too lonely. I'm sorry this isn't very helpful because my first answer is always "talk to people at school/college" but that most likely does not apply to you. Go out to places where you know other people have a mutual interest to make friends.

[steveguitar]

If I were you, I would try to get into hobbies where you can be around other people and meet other people. You could join a team sport with make and female team mates, just sign up as a single player and you'll ht put onto a team maybe.

But if you have hobbies you can do by yourself, that is also fun. Still lonely but you don't notice as much because you are busy. Plus it makes you more curious to learn, more interesting to others when you meet them and just gives you something to do.

That's what I did, is he second thing, I was always into music, and when I had friends they got I to guitar and so did I. But eventually I became a loner, and was even having a rough time making friends at work. I just didn't connect with them and I was super shy. But one day I quit working for a while and found a course to learn how to make a guitar, so I took it, and it was only two months, but I am making another right now. It gives me a lot to think about at least.

I am kind of shit at it because I buy cheap equipment, and tools that sort of fuck up my work so it's taken me a long time and I've had to redo so many parts which is discouraging, but also keeps me busy to correct past mistakes or learn a better way to don't.

I also play bass, guitar, and I just started playing electronic drums, so I can put drum tracks into songs I write. I am a shitty singer, but someone's in certain songs my voice is alright. But writing lyrics can help with frustrations and even if hey don't make it into an actual song it can help get your shitty feelings out of your head and into something else. Even if you're just expressing it to yourself it helps. And it doesn't have to be songwriting, that's just my thing because I played instruments first. You could get a notepad or write a diary or whatever.

Anyways that's what I would do. Good luck! But also feeling crappy about it doesn't help, I know.

[nileshg]

If you know exactly why you're feeling lonely... And from what you've described I think you do...
You might be one of the rarest kind of person that might never get over the fact of not having friends anymore.

Believe it or not, I'm one of them too 😁

I won't say much here... but if you feel you can talk to a guy regarding this... someone who has experienced the same, feel free to private message me.

I would very like to know another one of my kind 😉

[gympoet]

I remember a time when I felt the same way. Go out. Do it regularly and at the same place. You'll eventually meet people who don't disgust you.

[nOoNeknOwSs]

I don't really know how to help but I'll be your friend it's just nice having someone you can trust sometimes

[TallAnon]

We can start a club of not having friends together; I graduated a year ago and when you're working, friends aren't a thing for some reason..

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Try to create new opportunities for yourself to meet new people. It's the only way to find potential friends

I met one of my good friends at the gym.

The more new things you try, and more places you go to , you have more opportunities to chat to people to create a bond with them

[jazmiine]

I am the opposite of you. I love being alone and don't fell lonely, if I get lonely a day of bonding with anyone will suffice that loneliness for a year or more before I get lonely again.

[lilangelique]

take time to discover yourself, your interests that you have yet to discover while doing this you will meet new people along the journey and make new friends that you share common interest with usually if you meet them while you doing tasks you enjoy or are interested in. also it won't be that way forever just be social and yourself the world is a big place you are bound to find some true friends in the end! keep your head up :)

[afron]

By falling in love with yourself. Be your own buddy.

[DoubleDe22]

Omg I relate to this question so much I have had such horrible luck with friends also which has caused me to be more of a reserved person. Honestly use this time to get closer with yourself and spend some quality time with yourself. Go out to the mall or out to eat or do some kind of activity alone and trust me not only will you get to know yourself better but you will realize so much about others. Also don't rush things to get new best friends maybe try talking to new people at work and go out with them but let them come to you girl and I'm not saying put up a guard but realize what kind of people you want to be around and just go out and find that. It's going to take some time trust me but you will get there hope this helps.