one frnd of mine told this pic is horrible...(well he is new)... is this true?
Is this pic horrible?
What Guys Said 35
Well as far as the picture itself, the camera isn't very focused, and the setting, the "mise en scene" doesn't show anything of the woman in the picture nor does it arrive. The lighting is bad and the filter doesn't do anything to show any of the features of the girl or any form of art. SO YES IT"S A BAD PICTURE.
NOW as far as the girl in the picture. She must realize there's no way a person can have a "bad" image taken by a camera..
SHE must realize that if she's asking others to tell her if she looks good or bad, then she is seeking self affirmation in others... how can you validate yourself... by other people? you'll never be happy...
INSTEAD the girl should think of looks in two ways
1: only ignorant people see ugly/beautiful in aesthetics. there's no such thing as ugly only ugly points of views... to say someone is beautiful is to say they are acceptable as a human being while others who they THINK are ugly are not acceptable as human beings... do you really want approval from someone who views the world in such a childish way?
2: the girl should also see that if her beauty and acceptance doesn't come from others it comes from herself... yet how can she obtain it?
She must first address her fears, is she scared of not being accepted? Why? Can she change what others think?
What also does she feel guilty of herself of?
What is she ashamed of?
Can she change them, what can't she change? Does she even need to change them?
Does she grief over any events in life?
She must learn to let go of these social fears, guilt, shame and grief and be proud of being herself, be confident in not only the things you can do, and things you have BUT also the things you can't do and the things you don't. Be proud, and confident so that you can love yourself, and in so you will realize how special you are as a person, how no one is like you, how you are a rare jewel, and that you don't need others to tell you "is this picture bad."0
What are you planning to use it for? The background makes it look like you live in a dumpster. The 'myspace angle' makes it look like you're hiding your true size & guys assume you weigh 300 pounds.
Its not that great of a pic.0
It's a terrible picture of a potentially good looking girl1
Friend is right. Horrible might be a bit harsh but the picture is kinda bad.0
Yeah. Little bit horrible and the girl looking beautiful in pic. 😊1
no it is not0
It only looks like paranormal activity1
It's ok, lighting is poor0
The camera angle is horrible, but the girl in the pic is pretty cute.0
well he is a bad judge of people. can't appreciate a genuine smile0
No it's not horrible at all
You look cute...0
It's not a super great pic... but you do look super cute in it.0
i likw your smile. but should. try. a more open. and the filter too. maybe a blue. or. a white and black would be prefect but all are amazing. your hair smile tell your friend. he is the horriable 😒😍😍0
I like it, it has a style like the 90s.0
Honesty a little due to darkness0
want me to be honest?0
u look cute0
No it's fine0
You're cute, but the pic isn't flattering0
I like it. Send me more haha0
no you look so happy0
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What Girls Said 13
No, I didn't even cringe1
No. You look cute.1
The lighting and filter makes it harder to see your features which may make people think your trying to hide something0
its not a good pic0
It's pretty horrible. Try taking it somewhere with better lighting, and at a different angle 💗0
yes. but after i looked properly it shows pretty smile.1
Yes you look possessed0
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