Before abortion or adoption, both parents should have to sign and legally consent.
If mother refuses to let father consent, then he should legally be excused from any form child support.
As for the argument that the mom has to endure the pregnancy:
1.) You wouldn't be pregnant without the father.
2.) Our bodies are built to handle it. If men are "built" to be adequate providers, we women are "built" to handle our biological naturals.
If you're going to cry about this, don't have sex then - what do you think its for afterall?
3.) IF YOU DONT WANT IT, LET THE DAD HAVE FULL CUSTODY, and you pay child support, or exclude yourself from the child completely.
4.) Don't be selfish thinking "oh Ill look like a bad mom if I -"
you're already a bad mom for blowing off your unborn baby for your own selfish worries.
5.) CHOICE IS EQUAL, NOT ONLY FOR WOMEN.
A man ask for abortion and he becomes the satan of unborn babies, a mom ask for an abortion and she's just exercising her free rights?
Not cool society, not cool.
**My friend couldnt even get WIC benefits as a single father because the ladies at the office refused to put his app through - because he was a man and didn't need them as much as a single mother.
His children's mother was heavily on drugs, abusive to their kids, and the state fought him tooth and nail for full custody, and was even willing to let her still take them for weekends.
One of the kids swallowed her ecstasy pill (while visiting,) and is not perm brain damaged - and the state is still willing to let her have them a day out the month.
is now* perm brain damaged