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You cut them out of your life and don't look back, ever.
I stayed there but I just don't care anymore. Like I don't care about anyone or anything. If I'm not in the mood I won't even answer their texts. And when they'll be old I won't care the slightest.
"Don't count on me for anything" even though I didn't say it out loud, I act as if I did.
My wee sister absolutely hates me and is nasty to me and has always started on me since we were teenagers. I hate her back so I avoid her.
Put a crossbow bolt into your judgmental father's abdomen while he's taking a shit.
Sleep with your good-looking twin brother but then make fun of him when he loses his right hand.
Have sex with your cousin but then play mind games with him until he decides to give up all his property in this world (maybe even give it to you) before joining an ascetic monastery.
Send mercenaries to kill your incredibly ugly younger brother because he's the only moral one in the family.
Just some ideas to get you started.
I live with it, and ignore it. Sometimes I try to stop it, but they never learn, so I just try to conduct myself in an honourable way, and walk away when the talking behind their back starts. If you have faith, you know their time will come.
everyone is telling you to ditch your family. That is easy to say. I never got along with my sister despite efforts on my part. She was purely toxic. Finally after over 50 years of this bullshit I told her I'm done with her. I won't attend family gatherings if she will be present and I have had no contact with her for about 8 years now. It was the right decision but I didn't go there first. I kept trying to get along but finally realized she just plain disliked me-there was no "why"-she just disliked me. Ultimately you have to protect yourself but give them opportunity first.
Hold everyones feet to the fire. Never let somebody pass a lie underneath you. Pick up on their subtle tricks and point it out. You dont have to avoid your family when they avoid you. When they are wrong, do what youd do to anyone else you care about, tell them the truth and that they are acting wrong.
After doing this myself, I have no wounds on me whatsoever. My family is among the worst. Somebody in my shoes would have caved and probably been dead. So stay strong, stay good. Fight for your rights of fair and ethical treatment. At the end of the day its them feeling bad as you walk away with newfound confidence.
place principle before people and never find faults in yourself.
You keep them out of your relationship - tell them to mind their own fucking business.
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