It's complicated, I have two sisters, one 9 years older, the other 20 years older (involves some technicalities). The older one I've only met a couple times in my life, she seems nice enough, very different personality from mine though. The younger I grew up with. She was a troubled teenager and became a drug addict in her early-mid 20s. She had two kids, and I largely blame her for their messed up lives, I really feel horrible for her kids having gone through what they have and are continuing to go through, and that's something I have a hard time forgiving. As of almost a year ago my sister is deceased, so she died young (of a natural cause contributed from an unhealthy lifestyle in more ways than one). While she made me angry more frequently than not the last 10 or so years of her life, it is hard to not miss the time we had together when we were younger. We didn't always get along then either, but it was much more of a sibling relationship, I remember looking up to her as a child, after seeing what she went through (and put our family through) as an adult is heartbreaking.
Me, and my brother, are the ONLY siblings in three generations, on both sides, that just don't have any personal issues, and we NEVER fight, about anything!!Everybody else is asking WTF? All I can say, is we have a good relationship, we don't judge, and we just accept each other, as we are!! All the others, seem to expect their sibling to be something else, something they are not!!I won't take credit, for my relationship, with my brother, but he is, who he is, and I just accept that, and he is my brother, as he is, and not what I never expected him to be? Too many psychology classes, for me, in college, understanding and accepting? :)
Totally understandable my brother and I are literally 1 year apart so we use to tell people we’re twins lol... we get along for the most part
My sisters are my best friends I'm always there for them and vice versa.we have matching tattoos. We face time everyday I would die for them girls we are a trio one year apart from from each other. And just always been close to each. I find it odd when people tell me they do not really talk to thier siblings.We are so so different in personalty but it works for us.
I am the youngest of 6 ! I get along with all of them for the most part but the oldest one Sharron is verbally abusive to me and that is because she is insanely jealous over me ! For I have had many dates with a lot of different men and she dated one man for 30 years but he did not marry her for she is to mean to be wanted by a man ! Thanks
Oh gosh 6... my brother and I are a year apart lol my parents had a boy and girl and were done. But ugh that’s horrible to be verbally abusive and jealous she’ll never live a happy life like that
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Yes and yes. Even if at times she annoys me to the point that I don't want her anywhere around me, I'm thankful for my sister because even her bad traits are responsible for making me the person I am. I have learned a lot from her and also her mistakes. She is part of the reason I've always kept improving myself as a person. I also have four cousins who are very close to me. I, my sister and my four cousins we're a gang of six who always stick together whenever we're in the same city for any event.
Omg you legit sound like me I have cousins my age so we all go out together and my brother and I are a year apart so we’re really close although he never tells me he loves me like I tell him
Yeah siblings are awesome together! 😁Although, my siblings are not very close to my age. My oldest cousin is 10 years older than me, two of my cousins are 6 years older than me, my real sister is 3 years older and another cousin is 2 years older than me. I'm the youngest in the group 😄. We're still close because we all grew up around each other. Our homes were close so we all used to meet all the time. Everyone had to go their separate ways because of colleges and jobs then. But we still keep in touch and we're an unbreakable group whenever we meet up. 😊
I have a good relationship with my brother. He's 10 years older. When I was younger we used to have little fights but we also went on trips together and had fun. Now he's a real big bro for me. Helps me to deal with difficult situations in my life and is there to support me.
For me its a complicated situation. One minute she says she loves me, next minute she is jealous of me and speaks behind my bad to our father. Its a lot of toxicity.
We ignore each other most of time. When my little sister wants something I'm there for her but she would never do shit for me. My two older sisters actually enjoy my company.
That sucks!!! And at least your older sisters are there
No... don’t talk with most of my siblings anymore. Not worth the headache.
Yepp! Two sisters!One just competed in a bikini comp and im super proud, the other is travels abroad in buisness.❤️ them
I have 3 younger sisters but honestly it's like they were never in my life due to the fact I'm hated by them
Why do they hate you?
Besides the basic sibling rivalry. We never saw eye to eye when I came to their father.
Yea I have a younger sister and brother. Both are a year and half younger than me and we have a great relationship. We are very close. I am thankful for them because I don’t know what I will do
Yes, I have two younger sisters and we get along really well
Yes I come from a very tight knit family I love and are close to them all not just my siblings cousins aunts uncles that just how we are lol
My sister violated my trust turn her back on me and betrayed me but the rest of my family we have an outstanding relationship
My relationship with my brother is wholely platonic, yes
I love my brother and sister. Best people I've ever known. We've gone through a lot together, and it's brought us closer.
Yeap. I have a younger brother and we share a lot together.
With my older brothers: yesWith my older sister: no🤬👿😑
I guess but being dead inside makes connection with reality so weak half the time
Me and my younger brother are not on very good terms anymore. Mostly due to all his anger issues, it has damaged our relationship.
Yeah i have a younger sister she does bother me sometimes but i am thankful.
Yes, I love my brothers 😅
Yea I do too lol
I'm sorry to hear that
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