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yes. i'm one of two males that can carry on the family name. my cousin had 3 girls and i'm not sure if he's going to try again. luckily, my father settled for one sister having 2 boys. it's not the same though.so, it was definitely all about my father.i'm okay with not finding a woman worthy of my seed.
No. In fact they never mentioned it. However, recently, they asked if I had plans of having children or ever finding a girlfriend. I didn't have an answer then and don't have an answer now. I have animals, but they don't see my animal companions the way I do.
Yea they did and i asked them a question "how will i have kids" ? To which dad said "just like how you are our kid". To which i said "what did u do so that we became your kids"? Dad said smiled and said "ask Mom".
Yes. They’ve since stopped thankfully. They’d rather I not anymore.
I told them I will raise any kid I have in my religion. As devout Christians, they don’t like that. At all.
A few times, to which I always replied I didn't want kids, which would trigger the "You'll change your mind!' speech.
No. My family couldn't care less about marriage. They only made sure i do what it feels rights to me not what they wish for me to do.
Yeah, most people assume you're gonna get married and have kids, or at least want to, it's what most people want, it's human nature, so it's normal to assume such thing.
Nope. I've always been very adamant that i'll never get married or have kids
Not really. If anything, it's the opposite😩😩 But I wanna get married one day. But with the right person.
Miss ash, can i play the the wedding march in your wedding haha, i'd like to see you happy and especially everyone knows what will happen after marriage, it's honey for a reason... that's why it's called honeymoon, cause you will get the honey under the moon light
No my parents never told me them things , i was raised by closed mouth parents i learned everything on my own , don't know if i will ever see married life?
They did, but it was not in a way that created pressure
No, my parents would actually get mad at me when I talked about marriage or having kids.
They did and they still do. It's extremely boring especially since I told them I rather stay single (for now at least) i'm much too lazy to date.
Yeah, they just straight out told me that I would cause everyone did and they wanted grandkids :P
Not really. They imply more on success, having a job and make money.
Which is totally wrong especially for a woman since she might become a housewife
@TonyMetal_86 I don't think there is a right or wrong answer to be honest.
It'a wrong because a housewife doesn't have a job and do not earn money so it's irrelevent
Yes to both, they've been saying that since I was 10 and they still do
I guess they're going to look like fools when I'm 40 and still single 🤣
You won't remain single this long 😄
@TonyMetal_86 yes I will
And why is that, do you love being single?
@TonyMetal_86 I sure do
I see, well in this case it's something different... good luck living lonely all your life
@TonyMetal_86 I don't think people need a spouse to not be lonely
Yeah maybe you need a pimp
@TonyMetal_86 I don't think I do
I did but my mom wasn't annoying with it. Tbh parents that do are annoying and should leave their kids alone. Let kids be kids
I think anyone growing up in the middle east or east Asian culture has heard this at least a million times lol.
They assume that like everyone else. But people tell their homosexual son that before they realize he plays swords.
i'm pretty sure my father is borderline straight. he's gay, but society made him straight.
My great grandmother does it. My mom never wanted me to have my own kids
Yes. I've already decided that I don't want kids. I wouldn't mind getting married
Yeah they do that a lot. They're not pushy about it but they just assume I'm going to have one.
Yeah, we were like 5 or 6, it was just weird because my sister just blurted out that she'd marry me.
No.. they implied the opposite.
Nah are they supposed to?
My parents just told me to find what makes me happy.
Yes, not marriage really though
Ye. Its probably not going to happen tho
Well yes they most certainly did
Yeah they implied that sometimes, but rarely.
yeah lol part of Indian culture
Yes, they tell me often its time to find a wife.
Yes ofc... it's the most important step in life
Good question. They did imply both.
Yes. Many parents tell their children that.
Yes and that my kids will be like me
They sure did nothing yet 😥
Yep, jokes on them.
all the time
I think so
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