Someone very close to me is going through a lot right now. I've been there for him and it is killing me. I don't know what to do, and I don't know how long he has left. I'm also going through issues of my own, including possible life changing issues. I don't have many people to turn to and I'm very tempted to seek comfort from an ex. I know that's probably a terrible idea, but I don't know what else to do.