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See, i love these questions. No one wants to make the clear distinction between real friends and fake friends.Real friends respect you, care about you, and make an effort to be there for you.Fake frienda use you, lie to you, and talk about you behind your back.
Yes she can still be a real friend. Gossip happens naturally and sometimes people aren't aware of it. It's the type of gossip that matters. If it's malicious gossip then she is not a real friend. 😊❣️❤️
True friends can keep secrets and have each other's back.
I think it depends on the intentions and whether or not she was trying to gossip and create drama or if she just made an error in judgment and vented to the wrong person. I think we've all vented our frustrations about a friend to another friend at some point or another, without any malice intended. Sometimes that friend ends up spilling that information to others, and it ends up getting back to the person it was about. This is why I try to keep any negative feelings about people to myself or write them in a deletable note in my phone if I just really need to get it out. I have vented to close family and my best friend before when I needed advice or someone who would understand. However, spreading rumors in an attempt to hurt someone is a completely different story. I do not consider that to be a true friend at all.
Possibly the most disloyal thing anyone can do to you. If you're "friend" is a narcissist he/she will also use others as "flying mokeys" to smear campaign you.No true friend would ever do this. If you are someone who does this, it shows what a poor quality person you are. It says more about you than the target of your gossip.
I'm pretty sure almost everyone gossips about, well, almost everyone. Not all of it is bad. Some people betray your secrets and spread ugly rumors, and in that case they are not real friends. But others may be just curious or trying to look out for you.
NOPE!!! Friends don't gossip about other people. That's toxic! Do I have to be a good reason for a person to be talked about. Otherwise gossip is strictly a sin a good reason. It causes nothing but strife and problems.
Yeah, if the gossip she spreads serves you well. Had a persistent gentleman that wouldn't take no for an answer. Had my girl pull him aside and tell him Careful I had venereal warts "Real Bad" .Never seen or heard from him again.
Fuck no. A real "friend", which by the way is in the top 5 most loosely used terms on GAG, would NEVER gossip about you. Never, ever. (I hope my eyes roll back into my head after the eye roll going on currently).
no for real friends do not gossip about their friends ! Thanks
This is a no brainer but if you must know, she is not. Your friend is supposed to stop people from gossiping about you, not aid in the gossip. If she is doing this, then she is not your friend.
No, she's not a real friend if she gossips about you.
No why gossip about a friend? its like making fun of your favorite food
Nope.Dump her asap or burn again. Break up with her like a girlfriend boyfriend relationship with no female emotions.
If your talking about yourself then I'd dump you so fast that you thought lightning hit you.
She's still a friendBut I probably will stop opening up completely with her, because to me, trust is really important
I would not call such person a good friend, and I would definitely stop being friends with them.
Probably not, especially if it’s behind your back and not to your face.
Not to me, to me they would be despicable. I see gossiping as betrayal, and I absolutely hate betrayal.
No. At times we do it without noticing, but if you are close friends, never ever.
I guess it depends on the gossips, if she talks bad about you behind your back no, otherwise just deal with her as a person you shouldn't tell anything you don't want to be public knowledge.
All the time and my girlfriend will make me strip in front of her friends
All girls gossip, this shit is in your every bone and evey cell in your body. Guys talk about things and facts while girls talk about people most of the time.
Definitely not true. Majority of girls sure, but definitely not all girls.
@AmourHoney well, you'd be wrong there.."Because of the increase of oxytocin and the reproductive hormones, such as estrogen, women are tenderized to nurture and reach out to others in an effort to both protect themselves and their young. Women are about relationships. In fact, their self-esteem and identity are both dependent upon their feelings of adequacy in relationships."You're all about relations do to the chemicals in your bodies, this is your main focus, people, how they act, what they do... The outcome is loads of gossip.
Guess I’m not female then 🤷🏻♀️
@AmourHoney nah, you're just a liar :)
Nope, just raised with respect and decency for myself and others. But sure, call me a liar. I don’t really care, I know who I am and you don’t so your opinion doesn’t really mean anything to me because I know you’re wrong ☺️.
You read one article in Psychology Now and you think you're a behavioral psychologist...Psychology and behavioral psychology is a lot like astrology. It may be "true" for most, but most definitely is NOT scientific fact.This is the same exact generalization that women make about men, and it drives us crazy because "Oh thats not true at all for all of us!"Not everyone is the same, and calling someone a liar because they dont agree with your "opinion" is not the appropriate measure to take.
^Thank you. I appreciate it 😊.
@Phsyko it's a medical not psychological issue you fcking morons, any of you know dafuq estrogen is or oxytocin are?
Do you know what a dictionary is? I think you need one bud, "do" to the fact you dont seem to know how to English. :)(I know you're confused, how about you go reread your other post)
@Phsyko Ok I'll take it slow, the amounts of certain chemicals in our bodies are in charge of how we act, this is connected to psychology, but the reasoning is medical. If you'd like to make more retarded statements please feel free. I enjoy explaining to tards why they are tarded.
No need to use the word retarded. But like I said, I don’t do it but of course that makes me a liar because it doesn’t line up with your internet facts.
You're wasting your time here, human behaviorism isn't some type of secret knowledge. You saying you never talk about other people is a load of bllshit. It's as simple as that.
You’re a fucking idiot.
@AmourHoney I know you can't admit you lied... so stop wasting time please.. just move on you little tardling..
No Friend to The End... xxoo
No real friend gossips about you.
No. Friends dont run down friends
I mean... no... friends don't do such rubbish
Depends on what they said
i have to go with no on this one
No she is not
No, absolutely not.
Isn't that every girl?
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Not a real friend.
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