Well said. Thank You ♥️
Actually that's maybe the quality my friends have most in common, come to think of it. My friends are really eclectic from all across the world, and I had difficulty before trying to pinpoint anything they had overall in common. But I'd say it's that. They're all very independent types.
I did attract needy SOs when I was much younger though for some reason, but never needy friends (friends were always opposite of needy), and some of my exes were really like that. I learned to recognize some patterns to avoid though and ended up with my now-wife who is about as opposite of needy as I've ever dated.
Actually I think the reason I had this separation between such needy SOs and independent friends in the past is that I tend to be a rather offensive person in general, speaking my unfiltered thoughts (not mean or overly blunt thoughts but controversial opinions and lots of dark humor). Yet when I was younger I might have been trying too hard to impress women I liked, so I tried to avoid offending them, and in the process, I think I attracted more sensitive and needy ones. Meanwhile, with my wife, we started off as friends and I started off being offensive to her right away, and we became friends first before dating, and she wasn't the type to be offended at all by anything (super thick-skinned woman).
Say, that makes a whole lot of sense! Sorry for rambling. I just figured something important out about myself.
It's like with my friends I was always totally unfiltered. With girls I dated in the past, I "filtered" myself. Meanwhile, with my wife, I went totally unfiltered on her right from the first day we met. I think that finally allowed me to find a woman who wasn't needy at all, and shared more in common with my friends than my exes.
Love this. Thanks for the post 🌸💜🌸
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Good point. I had to drop mine for being a leech 🌸💜🌸
Oh mine dont ask for money but you see her in such pitiful situations you feel inclined to hand it over.
Love this post ❤️
That's horrible and sooooooo true. 🌸💜🌸
That's been my experience too. 🌸💜🌸
Oh nooooooo 😱
Totally agree 🌸💗🌸
Thanks for replying ♥️
Well said ♥️
I know the feeling ♥️
Totally agree ♥️
Very true 😊
With Friends like that who need enemies?
Yep, that's how I feel they were never a friend from the start.
Um. Okay? Ahahahaha 🤣♥️🤭
Good point ♥️
Lol thanks for responding ♥️