Why would you react like this? Is it becuse of religios reasons or something else?
Not at all.To me a boy is a boy and a girl a girl. There is no in between or switch of tender
The OP isn't asking about transgenderism. The OP is asking about if your child is attracted to their own gender.
Homosexuality is not a choice.
@mistixs You are right.Still it makes no difference to me. I have put a child in this world that has a serious psychological issue and it is my responsibility.One more reason not to have sex...
@musicbrain5 You are also correct. I see it more as a serious psychological issue.
I dont really understand why homosexuality is a problem, there are alredy too many people in this world. If more people where gay then that wouldn't be a problem
Umm... humans are wired to desire sex, so asexuality would be as much of a "serious psychological issue" as homosexuality is...
@mistixs Umm, sex has always, since the beginning of mankind been there for procreation, not for pornography and all its deviances. Therefore, anyone into pornography and misusing it like BDSM for example is equally in need of psychological help.We can continue this ping pong ad vitam æternam if you wish.
If sex is solely for procreation, then why are women sexually receptive all month long, despite only being fertile for a few days each month (around ovulation)?
@mistixs Could it be because the porn industry makes people want to be slaves of their libido and their hormones?Could it be because everywhere pressure groups work on laws to lower the age of consent to serve their purpose?Could it be that the marketing departments of a number of companies make every possible effort to sexualize the female body and objectify it for that very purpose.It is not because women want to be receptive that they must use every single opportunity for debauchery. That is also a psychological issue.And that will conclude this exchange of opinions.
From an evolutionary perspective: Bonobos, are closest animal relatives besides chimps, have endless levels of casual sex, especially between females. They didn't become that way because of pornography or marketing.From a religious perspective: The Bible's Song of Solomon references sex (within marriage) being enjoyed for the sake of bonding and pleasure, with no reference whatsoever to procreation. It references sexual activities that are clearly nonprocreative. I'm fairly certain the Bible isn't influenced by marketing and porn.Humans are designed to desire sexual pleasure. Just because you don't feel that way, doesn't mean everyone else is flawed.Personally I don't think that either asexuality or homosexuality is a disorder. But if homosexuality is a disorder, then so is asexuality.
Our* closest animal relatives, not "are"
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So close but still fail. How hard is it to say "I'll love my child no matter what"?
@NyfikenSyd i don't love my child no matter what. i love nobody "no matter what". you can do what you want but i'll attach some standards to what i like or condone. you live your life, i live mine.
Hating your child because he/she is showing a love you are not used to. A love that really doesn't impact you. Wow, you have great "standards".I don't love everyone no matter what, but hating someone because of who they love? SMH
@NyfikenSyd you connected some dots. there that were not connected. I didn't say I'll hate my child if it turns out gay. I said I won't love anybody unconditionally not even my child. The only exception is when it's still a baby. As soon as it stops making own decisions, I'll be reacting towards it's behavior. If my child turns out to be a murderer if it's 20, I won't love it anymore. I was just protesting unconditional love cause unconditional love creates immoral behavior.
I would still love my child it it claims to be some stupid secuality. You started the unconditional love bullshit which is another topic and I don't agree with unconditional love.
by the way I'm an atheist so I don't care what God likes.
It sure sounded like you wouldn't accept them if they came out as pansexual, transsexual, or anything but clean cut straight, bi or gay.I'm sorry for assuming you were religious, that's simply where most people with strong opinions of others sexuality are found.
@NyfikenSyd well as i said i would consider myself a failure in that case in terms of parenting but i wouldn't hate my child. i'd blame myself.
how old is she
Honestly I think coming out is weird like you don’t need to announce who you go to bed with. maybe I think this bc I have zero issue with gender though.
I really get that, the plan whit me whas that i whas just gona take a boyfriend Home one day and be like, BAM! BOYFRIEND!But i wanted to see how my parents would react to me coming out, so i came out to my mother and she didn't bealive me after like 2 months of denial she gave me a bracelet whit the pride flag on it. This whas better then i thought becuse i thought that they would kick me out, of course i haven't told my father and im pretty shure he would kick me out or kill me so im waiting whit him for when i get a boyfriend
But what if they didn't want babies
Well you're fucked then
If they were straight they could still not want babies.
Yeah but they most likely would
you'd encourage him to do what is an abomination. You go against God
If it was against God why would God let it happen in the first place? Show everyone love and acceptance.
@NyfikenSyd God lets many things happen.
And what is your explanation for why? Why would an omnipotent and truly good God let someone be born and grow into what (according to you) he/she would see as an abomination?
@NyfikenSyd he gave you brains to reject those urges. Or he doesn't. Looks like He doesn't
You are still not answering my question. Why would he not "give someone the brain"? Why would he let the person become "an abomination"?I'm not asking HOW, I'm asking WHY?
@NyfikenSyd Why would God stop him or her. He will judge after death not now
You just said he didn't give him the brain to reject the urges. This means he already knew what would happen. So again, why would he let it happen? Why would he give that brain to begin with.And "he will judge after" is in either case still not an answer to why.
@NyfikenSyd I meant gays still have brain and capability not to fuck other gays. Or you think they are morons?
You are avoiding my question. If homosexuality is against gods will; an abomination as you call it. Why does he let it happen?
@NyfikenSyd God ;ets rape murder happen too. He judges all after life
I take it that you actually don't know why since you refuse to answer.
@NyfikenSyd I already asnwered. You're acting dumb
No, you have answered how, not why. And even your (how) answer is contradictory since you first say he didn't give the brain to reject those urges, making it a desicion before hand. And then turned around and said he judges after life.But sure, if you feel you have already answered to why good would allow it to happen - could you please repeat it since I seem to have missed it.
@NyfikenSyd are you that kind atheist?
I try to live my life in a kind way, yes. To both people and animals.Do I sometimes falter? Sure. But that's only human. I still try my best.
That's not how it happens, a person doesn't wake up and day and says "I'll be gay", there's something on the brain, probably with genetic origins, that makes a person feel attracted to the same sex
Sounds just like the tipical parent of a closeted gay, who also has hidden mental problems because of the fact that their parents talk like this and refuse them the possibility of ever coming out 🤦♀️
You are a true genius, woman.
From a trauma and media or missing parents?
I mean its often true.
Not always tho
In my experience yes it has.