I'm attracted to the extremities, come to think of it. The guy friends I like most are kind of chauvinistic They're into sports, bodybuilding, heavy drinking, arm wrestling, dumb shit. I like them a lot. Then the girls I like are maybe sort of the opposite, like they're refined, and have table manners, or even if they don't they're sort of cute in the way they don't, and most importantly, they can spill their heart out. They can share their hopes and dreams and longings and fears with me. And I like both qualities. It's the ones in between these two extremities that I don't like so much. I find them boring. I like people who break through the glass somehow that separates us, either with raw emotion or with the headstrong brute force.
Or maybe courage? I thought more about this and I like brave people. They're my favorites. And bravery, in my opinion, comes in at least two forms. There's the type where some small guy kicks a police officer twice his size with a gun in the balls, and that's fucking brave... or stupid. And I don't care about the distinction between brave and stupid. The end result is amazing, and so I don't care how it's motivated. People with high IQs have to get their shit together if they want to conquer this world because the ones they call "idiots" typically have way more courage and actually smash through the walls they twiddle their thumbs contemplating how to climb for whatever reason.Then there's the other type of courage, and that's' the type where someone spills their heart out to someone else. It's an act of courage I find more often in my favorite female friends. They're brave that way when they share their hopes and dreams and fears with me. That's fucking brave. It's maybe even braver than the other way because you have to bear more consequences if you make a mistake.And these two types of people usually don't get each other. My male friends don't understand my female friends and vice versa. They both try to dissuade me from spending time with the other. But I like the brave ones. They break through the walls most people construct and confine themselves in.
Bravery is importantIt is a far far better thing I do than I have ever done...
I get it
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It probably is cause u look like a model
I mean, I'm not like scary... I don't think... At least i hope i'm not lol.
If that’s u, ur not scary
it is me. I mean some people act intimidating. I don't tho i'm really silly all the time.
Silly is cool 😊
whew i'm not weird after all!
Not at all 😊
I'm the opposite. I tend to soothe over hurt feelings. But I also don't forgive someone who backstabs me.
Some people have a gift for having good "delivery" and the chic friends I have lost because my delivery sucks I miss very much, so like a coward I quit trying. I just like the straight shooting communication style of my guy friends. I definitely don't like how people assume I'm f***ing all of them though, maybe some lol but not all😂
I totally get it
They might wanna bang you? Or vice versa?
Yes, along those lines.
I’m kinda like you
Most of mine are too
That worksAre the guys real friends or just guys you fuck?
Some of both
What did they want?
Something more than being just friends. I was sure for some of them that they wanted a relationship but didn't tried to dig deeper.
They wanted something sexual
Given your pic, I’m surprised you didn’t want that too...
Correction on my previous reply: wanted a relationship but I* didn't tried to dig deeper.Sure some of them just wanted something sexual but I wasn't in for that either.. at least not at that time :D
Did someone break your heart?
Oh I wish I had a complete experience of that. Someone was close to doing that but thanks to my pre existing cynicism and trust issues, I withdrew myself while I still had the chance.
Happened to me too
Sucks, especially when they where cool dudes😂
Yeah. I know :-(.
I noticed that more men are active here than women, maybe this is why?
She is jealous
Guys. But that's irrelevant. You DON'T pick your friends on the basis of sex appeal.
Omg I can't believe this is actually an opinion 😮