My boyfriend sees my mom as crazy. I think she is crazy as well. We are both on the same page about it. He said he does not want to deal with her. So I said I could distance myself from her. He said he doesn't want her in our lives. Our goal was marriage and kids. He doesn't want her around the kids because he doesn't trust her judgment and he thinks she would cause us to get a divorce later down the road if she stayed with us if there were health reasons where she can't take of herself. And I asked him, what if I disowned her? He said I don't want to ask you to do that and that is too cold. That is basically saying you would leave her out to die in the streets. He knows that I would do anything for him. If he left the country I would go with him and leave everything behind. Is there a solution to this? I've asked my siblings and dad. (My mom and dad are divorced. My dad remarried.) I've gotten mixed responses. Is there a solution?