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When are kids around you? When is the date? Or do you mean you forget time when kids are around
I meant that i tend to forget that it isn't 1977, when it was ol to discipline your kids in public
Adopting a child is perfectly fine. There are a lot of kids out there looking for good homes with loving parents.
If you're wondering do I regret not having kids yes and no. Yes for obvious reasons not having a child of my own and No because i avoided a lot of women who were either bad mothers or would of made bad mothers (completely unfit mothers) and it would have been a complete disaster had i chose to have children with any women from my past.
Here are some questions I want to ask you. 1. Do you know what to do when a baby is teething? 2. Do you know what to do when a baby has an ear infection? 3. Are you willing to breastfeed your baby? 4. Are you prepared to talk to your child's teachers and principal? 4. Are you willing to relearn all the complex math and science and old English literature stories? 5. Are you willing to get up every morning at 6am when the child has to be ready for school and willing to drive the child to school if a school bus system isn't available? 6. Are you ready to talk to your child about sex and about drugs and alcohol and about peer pressure 7. Are you able to talk to your child about bullying and how to handle it 8. Are you prepared to have fights with your child's teachers and principals (because realistically this will happen)
Also do you know which type of diapers to buy and how to mix baby formula? And do you have or can you get a reliable babysitter if you need one in a pinch?
If the day should ever come that I'm fortunate enough to have children (with Demi) I don't want my child or children around my side of the family it's to protect them from the amount of evil and hate they have and the amount of abuse they give out and all the evil vile that comes from their mouths. Sir Elton John's mother (as horrible as he thinks she was) was a saint compared to my family especially my mother and her second ex husband. My grandfather before he finally died (and as bad as this sounds even though it's extremely true) was so evil even satan himself didn't want him. In fact he was so evil all he had was anger and hate in his heart when he died. I know because I saw him 2 days before he died. There was no peace or love on his face just anger and resentment and pure evil in his heart. And unfortunately my cold hearted mother is just like him which is why if I ever have kids I would have to do everything in my power to keep my child or children away from my family so they won't get exposed to the sheer level of evil i was exposed to
and mind you my grandfather didn't die of natural causes either it took a nurse and my mother to kill him off by giving him pain meds in his gums and mouth to finally end him and that miserable old evil sob was 97 and 1/3 before they finally offed him
The reason for that is I don't want my child being physically or verbally abused by anyone on my side of the family like I was as a child which is why I don't want my child anywhere's near my side of the family
Sorry for all the replies
But it would be fun to try and make one ;)
Can you link the study plz? I find it highly implausible.
@Oram52 I read it in a newspaper about 3-4 years ago. Was a government study but can't find it.Keep in mind only the demographic of degree educated women were asked
I agree ☝️
Wasn't it like 600,000 or similar. For population of over 300 million 70,000 sounds awfully low. But yes I agree on adopting as well.
Honestly you're probably right, it's been a long time since I viewed statistics.
I agree jeez adopt adopt those kids are growing up with no one who cares.. it’s horrible like growing up on an assembly line
That's a bit misleading, i grew up in a town with alot' of retirees. People do die without their kids by their side.
@Fiiggy It happens when you raise your kids the wrong way and abuse them. Boomers and shit do this often.
A lot of people die when no one is there. People come to visit, sit by their bed side day after day and talk to them, but plenty of people hold out until no one is around to let go in the middle of the night or early morning. The ones that don’t do that, usually go really hard and are very fearful but their body gives out on them no the less...
@BeMuse I know this... You are taking it too literally. If you dont make children they obviously dont even come visit you.
@esotericstory You hit the nail on the head with the Boomer' reference. it' pretty right on...
So you don't have kids and now regret it or you're glad you had kids as you wanted kids.
Could never really afford it. Second husband did not want more kids.
So, you never had your own biological children? Those kids were your second husband’s?
One kid, and yes. I never had children.
Do you want kids or are you happy as is?
I would but wife can't have any and we can't adopt