What would you say to a guy who states "I'd be a horrible father"?

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I'm at the age where people around me are starting to get married and thinking about having kids. Now for me kids are something that are not in my life plan (i don't like kids at all, but if i ever do have kids i'd want to adopt)

When people ask me why i don't want kids my main response is normally some variation of "i'm somewhat emotionally unavailable and that's not a good thing for a kid". I know i can be quite cold and abrupt (i learnt from a young age that the world is a cold, harsh place), i know at times i show very little empathy for people and tell them to just deal with it (cos it's the way i had to deal with my own shit)

If you came across a guy like this would you class this as a red flag or just someone who has a head on their shoulders
What would you say to a guy who states "I'd be a horrible father"?
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