I already know why I'm this way and I'm not going to change it.
Why aren’t you going to change? Why even ask such a question in the first place if you’re not open to changing it? Makes no sense
The question is self explanatory.
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Do you go out to places often?
No. I tend to avoid crowds and most places seem awkward to go alone. The only exception is the movie theater. Even then, I usually rustle up one or two people to go with me, but I've gone alone plenty of times as well. Outside of that, I don't really go anywhere. I play games, watch movies/shows, and read about myriad things.
Why isn't it healthy
Humans are social animals, Its in our DNA. Ever seen depressed people who think they are alone in world, no one cares for them... That's how you will feel when you're going through tough time. I have been introvert my whole life. When I started making friends, having fun, making jokes with them, That's when I realized what I was Missing. That joy which comes after good conversation and fun , gives very high Dopamine Rush.🤩😍 You can't compare it with reading, playing games. etc Alone.
Except being an introvert have nothing to do with having no friends or being depressed. A person who is an introvert is just those people who needs alone time to recharge when an extrovert is people who needs to socialize to recharge but both of them can be overcharged
@Aiko_E_Lara I have to disagree to an extent; it has been known for a long time that poor social skills or lacking the desire to socialize is associated with depression and anxiety, but not necessarily being introverted. I suppose some people really don't have any desire to be around others, but it's physically and mentally important to interact socially.
That's what I'm saying
Do you go out much?
not anymore, people at the bar started to put the chairs in midst of the room like you can't get through to the bartender, and on the way to university you seriously have to take care of bikers to pass by on the pathways by exactly 1ft 🙄
You could have just answered the question
Yes is the answer but you need to understand why it's not important to have friends to be happy
Then why don't you just explain it
Everything can not be explained in words dear
Aw why no friends?
Because everytime I start likeing and Trusting someone... I end up being the bad guy even though I'm right!!! Never is any different.. so why try ! ?
No. I dont go much of anywhere just to work and groceries, grow store ! I'm a homebody. I'd rather be in my garage creating my Art, or on my motorcycle! I don't watch TV!
I'm sorry I just realized I had 2 responding! 😬😬😬
When did I say I can't have friends
Kind of depends. But I meant more that "Personally, I believe that you can." Not that I'm necessarily in that position. Although I'm not exactly afraid of being in that position either.
But really that's not going to make you a better person or get you fortune. You'll just be like that for the rest of your life and eventually you would get bored and try something new since all human beings are social creatures. My advice to you is to not waste time.
I don't expect to live long anyway so it's not wasted time
But it's a wasted life anyone could've have.
It's not like I could trade it with anyone so that doesn't even make sense
To think you only have one of it and you're just going to throw it away. Just don't lie to yourself but i know you're not really enjoying it if you're not really expecting to live long.
What have I lied to myself about?
You know you can if you really just have to give everything you want to someone who needs it
When did I say I was happy?
And if i still don't make sense, here's another way to say it but you can give up everything you have right now, give up your potential and give it all to someone who can use and invest it properly
Huh? How would I give (whatever it is that you're talking about) to someone else?
What about saying you're not interested when having a family. Saying as if it's not a problem at all and it makes sense to assume you're happy about it but it turns out you're not
And like what i said. how could you waste it?
Expecting not to live long that is. If you like to waste it just give it away
I don't understand what you mean by "give it away"
It doesn't take a genius really.
I repeated it like a lot of times already. And it wouldn't be really surprising if you don't know what potential is.
Then don't ask. Simple
You're just saying a bunch of nonsense that doesn't make any sense
Again it doesn't take a genius.
And that's why I said whatever then
If I'm too dumb to understand it then it doesn't matter.
And if you're so dumb, our answers shouldn't matter. But if that's the case and if you don't like it. No one asked to ask us anyways.
I don't have an issue with any of the answers. I asked and they answered the question. It's more or less a yes or no answer so no issues there.
Like what I said no you can't and you need help.
Oh well, goodbye now
Also if you don't like elaborations, you can just leave this as is, go back to your safe place and let the grown ups talk. After all we're allowed to elaborate because it's called freedom of speech.
Again, no issues with any of the replies. Now stop replying, I'm tired of seeing your face in my feed.
Sure if you don't have, why do you still care if i have something else to say? So what happened to "Oh well, goodbye now" You're the one who's trying to leave here not me so why should I be the one to stop? That just proves you don't know what you;re saying
I said "goodbye now" 3 comments up
Then you came back anyways. You're saying?
If you're really done and you don't have to come back here unless you have something else to say because whoever said i'm done? Just because you are that doesn't really make me one and of course i'm still open to anything what you want to say
Apparently you're not still open because I repeatedly said that I don't understand what you're saying. You're only response was "doesn't take a genius"
In that case i would repeat everything what i said like a broken tape recorder for you or you can just read it again. And also all you keep responding is i don't take a genius so that's a good reason for me to give that response
So what happened to your "good bye"? Are you just going to keep coming back just to prove me right you don't know what you're saying?