I got really offended when my best friend said "don't judge me" before telling me her problem. I NEVER judged her, I always supported her, and yet she's the most judgmental person I know. I always keep things from her because I know that she'll judge me, yet I never tell her to not judge me. And I always make a conscious effort to not be judgmental. I felt like 15 years of friendship went down the drain when she said that. Do you get irritated when someone says "don't judge me"?