My future stepdaughter is being enabled by her family in my opinion. Everytime she and her dad argue, she wants to leave and go to her mom's or her sister's place. Everytime she fights with her mom, she wants to go to her dad's or sister's place. This is a repeated behavior and when she wants to get picked up, everyone drops what they are doing and gets her there. I feel getting her out of arguments because she is not happy is just avoidance of the problem. I know that I have no say but I'm still allowed to have an opinion.