Its the best option for you then
why wouldn't you call them son or daughter
I dont want them growing up with a lie. I would rather them know their real father or mother, died, abandoned them, or couldnt take care of them. They need to learn the truth about things early.
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Thats really nice
what language do you speak in Suriname, Spanish or portugese?
Dutch is our 2nd language while Surinamese (sranang tongo) is our mother language
wow i didn't know Dutch was spoken in latin america
Suriname isn't part of latin america. or at least it never came to my attention that it was. It is part of the Caribbean tho lol. Folllow me lets have conversations :)
omg im so ignorant about Caribbeans enlighten me please
It's going to be hectic and almost drive me crazy, but I will want to do it..
@Nik1hilHow do uou know you will have 1 boy and 1 girl? You could have 2 boys or 2 girls. You could have triplets that all boys or all girks and so on.
Then you probably shouldn't have any kind of children neither natural nor adopted
Doesn’t seem to be an effective use of time
Sassy eh? If you really think everyone is more or less the same don't have standards and preferences for people and partners. Don't try putting people down just because they don't agree with your moral sense of 'virtuous' behaviour. once you get there maybe we'll talk cause that's what you/you're arguing...
Fair answer but you’re assuming she doesn’t want “damaged” children. Some people are fine with knowing the child they adopt might come with behavioral/mental complications and know so in advance.
@girlthatneedsanswers And they may well end up impacting the lives of their other family members who had no choice in the matter. I know of at least 3 different instances where such benevolence turned into long-term chaos.
In the end do the families still love the adopted people even if life gets super tough? It’s sucks that people can cause such chaos and impact so many lives yes, but at that point wasn’t it the parent’s decision in the first place whether they thought it out enough or were ill informed?
And you babe?
i'll get one:)
Same then :)
I know you will, you will bring happiness and joy into their lives. I don't know you but I know your love I can hear the emotion in your words I can feel the warmth from your emotions. If nothing else, I want u to know that your words make me happy in ways and for reasons I guess I'm incapable of expressing. But I will say this though. Thank you its really good to know there's someone else who's capable of feeling and understanding the pain of being a foster kids. You have a good heart and a beautiful soul, thank you
and male? wdym
i don't even*yeahwhen you're an only child and male, you're pressured to keep the name going, so, that's what i HAVE to do
@asshole_That is stupid thinking you must have a child since you are an only chikd yourself and male. If someone doesn't want any kids then they should not have any or adopt because mist likely that child will bot feel like you love them or care about them.
then your morals are screwed up
@MysteriousDarkness ever heard of reproduction and survival and selfish gene eh? His/their point is somewhat valid...
5.5 billion people are non-muslim, why would we care what islam says?
5.5 billion of non-Muslim is not a proof by itself that their opinion is correct. because it is against the logic principals... adoption causes a total miss of Mixed family lineage. and orphan child always has parents they can claim it at any time and will be a fight. If you liked to know the difference between the Islamic system descended from God in the Qur’an in comparison to other systems developed by man, you can read about the inheritance system in Islam. I can help you any time. best regards
I'll have 1 or 2 kids and adopt 1 or 2.
That's nice. I really think of 4-5 kids :)
But I probably would prefer a biological child, as I’d naturally feel more connected to him/her that way