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lovely to receive your contribution as always 🌹 I guess just busy with life but all is good :)
Good to be busy, the trick I guess is to be involved in the details without loosing the vision of the whole. Sometimes we get too busy for our own good... sometimes I have seen myself being so busy/involved in something... I forget/forgot why I started... Just thought I'd say... . https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DxKB-1G2v1w
beautiful advice. Some can afford having free time more than others tho. It is a trade off that's as ancient as time itself. However if you got your basic needs covered like it is ordered in Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Then excess money, power, and women can't and won't buy you happiness. Only after those needs are met you can afford to invest in memories, experience, and emptiness. Having nothing to do can be a blessing and can be a curse. You need to satisfy your mind, heart and soul otherwise emptiness will eat you and depression or addiction can kick in. It all has to happen within balance my friend and at the right time. Having free time while in extreme poverty (homeless) can make you feel worthless, helpless or give you a sense of faluire. People need meaning and need to be able to afford being free so they can be happy. These are billionaires. So although there is wisdom in what they say but it doesn't apply to all those who hear it. It's only valid when you can do it without consequences. Mainly middle class and upper class citizens living in safe areas with their families.
You are right, I think my time has long past. There's a difference between satisfied and content, I regard satisfied and satisfaction as a curse in disguise. Most people seem to think they want satisfaction but in truth what they are seeking is content. Content is a product of doing something and being satisfied with it. Satisfaction on the other hand can be gained when your basic needs and some more are met, enough number of times to get accustomed to thw idwa. I remember when we used to live with (such) strained financial conditions I wouldn't ask for anything cause I knew it was money, I knew they would still try to give it me. I liked books but acted like I wasn't interested cause money, wanted and liked electronics but never asked for anything cause money, now those days have long gone, so useless now that I could but I just don't wanna because the desire is gone and I don't have to. I just feel so useless sometimes, being useless doing nothing/not much productive, such a waste. Useless, destroying my life.. maybe I'll end up with a farm somewhere, the simple life. Away from people, bothering no one, not being a problem. Better if I didn't have to deal with it... any of it.
Sorry for being depressive, I'm so emotionally naive.
That's obviously true but what I meant is legal custody. Or even a child living arrangement. It's more common to see divorced women taking care of their children than single fathers. I was just wondering what people think the reasons are.
Because we have outdated laws and a system that refuses to change.
It's like the batman killer argument, no the number of killers don't remain the same. Small deviation in means can mean large deviations in extremes and that is how you could explain desperation in men.