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I think you have misunderstood me. I am try to make a female friend so that i don't feel so shy around women anymore. When i start my career i'll have to work with women too and it would be a huge problem if i can't even talk to them.
* i am trying.
Actually women not interacting with me is not the problem. They try to talk to me but i get so shy and awkward that i nevervously give one word answers or sometimes i just walk away. It's really embarrassing.
From my experience, that's not the case at all. Girls are just like guys. If you talk to a girl the same way you would talk to a guy, they'll 99% of the time respond in the same way a guy would because our brains are wired in mostly same way. It's when you treat girls differently from guys that you come across as "wrong".
I find it 100000x easier to talk to people when im around other people who are ALSO shy and socially awkward haha that was my point. Maybe you feel the same way?
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I have male friends it's not like i am trying to make female friends only. I want to make a female friend so that i don't feel so shy around women anymore. When i start my career I'll have to work with women as well and it will be huge problem if I can't even talk to them. It's about self improvement.
Just a few random ideas and in no particular order other than how they entered my thoughts!Chat online. In a chat room dedicated to whatever floats your boat/you're interested in. As you get more familiar and comfortable you can even enable your webcam so the other people can see you.Volunteer your spare time at a womens shelter for example. They'd appreciate and welcome your effort for wanting to help in whatever way you can and that they can accommodate you in a role to do so. Also, as the presence of women here will be high, you'll have no choice in communicating with others including those women.Look for work experience to gain an insight into the world of work you wish to see yourself in the future. Most work experience only lasts a week so gives you enough time to be exposed to others without having to form long term relationships/them having awkward feeling towards you.Hope that helps? If anything else pops into my head I'll let you know.
ie nice guy syndrome
I’m the same way
Throw what out?