Let's say that you are a single parent and you have a 3 year old deaf son. Your other son is 13 and regularly helped you with the the 3 year old, including potty training him. You sometimes hear the three year old crying and your oldest saying he didn't do anything and cuddling him. Finally, your oldest son pushed him to the floor and said he should of never been born. Later, you find out your oldest was pinching his nose and cheeks to make him cry then cuddling him and saying sorry afterwards.