Doing something together sometime sounds like it’s just hanging out.
Yeah, but most of the time the “hinter” doesn’t want to say “Well, you should ask me to go on a date.” Lol
So the hinter suggests hanging out?
Yeah, I mentioned 2 possibilities in the thurd scenario...“ the first person asks the other person out OR hints that they should do something together sometime
But hanging out won’t lead to anything unless one of them takes things further?
No, you’re missing my point...In my third example, let’s say person A (male) confesses to B (female) that he has feelings to B and asks out B; or person B (female) confesses to A (male) that she has feelings to A and hints to A that they should do something together sometime (hoping that will inspire A to ask female B out on a date).
Oh I see. So basically if the girl doesn’t hint in that way, the girl doesn’t like him?
No, I’m saying that if she confesses to the guy that she likes him and he replies that he likes her too, then it’s more probable that she will hint to him that they should do something sometime (in the hope that he will ask her out) instead of her asking the guy out.
I see. But generally in these situations, wouldn’t the girl assume he’s not interested and lose interest?
No. She just confessed that she had feelings for him, and he replied that he has feelings for him too. And then she said, “Maybe we can do something sometime.” So it just happened in the last few minutes so if he takes her hint and asks her out, then she’ll say yes. Beyond that, it’s too difficult to say how long it would take for someone to lose interest (because everyone’s different). But if both people confessed interest in each other, then the answer to the question that you asked: “What’s more likely to happen?” is that the guy would ask the woman out right away.
* he has feelings for her too
Unless either lost interest due to taking too long.
It’s more likely that the guy will ask the woman out right away, if both confess their feelings for each other.
Note: What I am describing is my third scenario where one confesses to the other that they have feelings for the other, and immediately after this the other person also confesses their feelings. In this scenario, it’s more likely that the guy will ask the woman out.
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