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I didn’t realise girls think that about one on one hangouts. Isn’t that just what friends do?
What if you do reciprocate her romantic feelings but just prefer being single?
I think that as long as you are open and honest with her. so she knows what the real situation is, then it's fine. I think it's only wrong if you allow her to think it might become a relationship if you have no intention of that happening. As long as she knows that you want to be single and have no intention of it becoming a relationship, then she can freely choose whether or not she wants to be "just friends". If that's what you do, it might not hurt to periodically encourage her to find someone to date just so she's stays aware of the fact that you aren't planning to have a romantic relationship with her.
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But I like her.
What does it exactly mean that you like her? What do you like about her?Does she know you want to be friends only? Do your actions communicate that?I mean, no intimate chats, no one-on-one hangouts, no snide remarks when she mention other guys, no touching. Because actions speak louder, and if you act like a boyfriend, she will think you want her, even if you are saying that you don't.
What do you mean by intimate chats? We started hanging out one on one a lot but that’s what friends do right? I rarely touch her other than maybe a short pat on the back like friends do.
Why is it better for you to be single? I'm just asking.
Because it’s easier being single.
OK. If being single is truly better for you, then make sure she knows she's a friend.Say it often. Ask her opinion about other girls, try to set her up with a mate and tell her he would be interested and stuff like that. Treat her like a a bro, not like a woman. If she stays after this, then it's her choice.
What’s treating her like a bro?
Like you treat your guy friends?
I don’t tend to make prolonged eye contact or hang out one on one with my close guy friends.
Then maybe don't do it with her either.Or sit down with yourself and really think it through what you want. Pros and cons. But for your question, as long as she really knows and understands you're not going to be more than friends, because you are not acting like it can be interpreted as mixed signals, it's not selfish.
Oh! So you want to be friends with benefits. Cuddle, make out, maybe sex. Then, tell her that. it is up to her. Be honest then allow her to decide. Strictly platonic or Romantic Friends.
Easier being single.
and you have no bros to hang out with? you need a girl? the least you could do is have her as a fuckbuddy.
I have lots of bros to hang out with. And I don’t need her as a fb.