How can I make a person not following me anymore on Facebook?

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Im tired of my sister following me on Facebook and like tracking me what I post and then if I post something she finds, is not suitable, she in private over a Whatspp message starts to question me why did I post taht on Facebook. Im tired of it I dont want my sister to follow me anymore. Not complete block her or delete her I just dont want her to follow what I post so she wotn be able to see what I post and stop criticizing me.

She does not even live in my house, she is married and has her own life with her husband. I dont criticize her and question her on private the things she post, but she believes she has the right to do it with mine. I mean I dont post nasty or sexy or raunchy things. But maybe I comment on new or photos s or things in general that maybe when she sees what I post she disagrees on so she has to call me and ask me why I post what I post. SHe seems like a inspector. Im sick of it I want her to unfollow me.

Another thing is that my sister loves to criticize the way my mom my brother and I live in the house each time she stops by to visit us to greet mom or just for a quick visit. Each time she comes at home she acts like an inspector to check if furniture is dirty if the house needs some repairs, and also questions us why an item is still in the house after so many years and we have not gotten rid of. Why we still use this or taht. I mean our house (the one she grew up with) is an old house so for sure the time goes by and the house starts to be needing repairs sure, my brother and I are aware of it but we dont have enough money to make some updates or repairs at the house often, we dont have much money to do it so and do reparirs for so many things that our house indeed needs. My sister is even embarassed our house is falling apart because we dont give it the proper repairs in time. We dont have that much money to do many repairs at the same time, we are doing it

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little by little with the money we got left from the month. But she never helps us with money either , she just criticize and question us for not doing the proper repairs at home on time. But she and her husband lives in a nice house not very big though but her house is nice, that this year with the pandemic and all she had done 2 full renovations at her house. Due to her and her husband are working fully from home, they had to renovate the second floor and change one bedroom in a office

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Also recently they are renovating their bathroom, and closets, making a new bathroom. They are still working, and receiving a salary from their workplaces

At thje beginning of this y ear, they also change their kitchen put a new furinutre. Im glad for them but we are not the same as hers, and she question us. The same is happening with the COVID thing remind us like we are little kids each second the cleaning protocols we have to follow.

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Cmoreins

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It sounds like your sister has inner issues that need to be resolved. She may have found something that works for her, wants what's best for you guys, but doesn't know how to speak it in a helpful, friendly manner. Are your parents critical? If not, maybe she was always critical and used that for her own motivation and is now pushing it on you thinking it's helpful. I'm just speculating.
As for Facebook, I'm not on there, but is there a way to edit the setting so that certain people can't see your posts? I'd look into that.
Also, have you spoken with her about how the way she behaves is upsetting you? Try to have an honest conversation. Maybe she doesn't know how to express love in a way that's gentle, so showing it through constant concern is all she knows.

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kitty71

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She just got pissed at me for other stuff. She ius very very afraid of this Virus that does nto want me or my brother to even go out ro run errands. We live with our mom who is senior but she is not the one going out for the errands just my brother and myself we have to go out to run errands. when my broher or I go out we wear our masks and when we are in the shop or market we try to do thge distancing as well. The riks her is our mom sure of we bring the virus home.

For Christmas eve we were invited to go over the house of a cousin of mine as this cousin parents are my mom sister. The house of my cousin is rahter small sure and we will be like 11 people inside. So my sister told me you should not go anywhere for Christmas and stay home with mom. The thing is that my brotehr and I we dotn want to cook and it be a bit boring to stay home just the 3 of us int he house. My cousin invited us to join them only us my sister I bet if she is invited by the cousin she won't go.

SO my sister tells me tell the cousin to organize the dinner somewhere wlese where eeryoneca including mom be at distant from each other. I mean I can't do that it is not my house and I can tell the cousin that if he is the one inviting us to go over her house. My mom is sneior as so does my cousin parents.

So my sister got all mad at me and told me you should not go even if it is inside a house with our closest relatives.
kitty71

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Two weeks ago these same cousins invited my mom and myself to join them to go to a local trip to the house of another aunt. This hous is big and open space. So in taht trip was the first time we saw these cousisn after 9 mos of not seeing them. This trip was 2 weeks ago and my sister told me you and mom should had not gone out to that trip either is too dangerous and risky. Well that was almost 3 weeks ago, and so far my mo and I have no symptoms as we mingle with these cousins 3 weeks ago.

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kitty71

She just got pissed at me for other stuff. She ius very very afraid of this Virus that does nto want me or my brother to even go out ro run errands. We live with our mom who is senior but she is not the one going out for the errands just my brother and myself we have to go out to run errands. when my broher or I go out we wear our masks and when we are in the shop or market we try to do thge distancing as well. The riks her is our mom sure of we bring the virus home.

For Christmas eve we were invited to go over the house of a cousin of mine as this cousin parents are my mom sister. The house of my cousin is rahter small sure and we will be like 11 people inside. So my sister told me you should not go anywhere for Christmas and stay home with mom. The thing is that my brotehr and I we dotn want to cook and it be a bit boring to stay home just the 3 of us int he house. My cousin invited us to join them only us my sister I bet if she is invited by the cousin she won't go.

SO my sister tells me tell the cousin to organize the dinner somewhere wlese where eeryoneca including mom be at distant from each other. I mean I can't do that it is not my house and I can tell the cousin that if he is the one inviting us to go over her house. My mom is sneior as so does my cousin parents.

So my sister got all mad at me and told me you should not go even if it is inside a house with our closest relatives.

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kitty71

Two weeks ago these same cousins invited my mom and myself to join them to go to a local trip to the house of another aunt. This hous is big and open space. So in taht trip was the first time we saw these cousisn after 9 mos of not seeing them. This trip was 2 weeks ago and my sister told me you and mom should had not gone out to that trip either is too dangerous and risky. Well that was almost 3 weeks ago, and so far my mo and I have no symptoms as we mingle with these cousins 3 weeks ago.

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msc545 | 783 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Master

I think you can block her, and you probably should.. She is abusive.

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JPrez

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You could block her or shut down your Facebook page for a while.

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pizzalovershouse | 669 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Master

Block them

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jimmy2 | 676 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Guru

Yes get off of it

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kitty71

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I mean she will know i block her I just dont want her to follow me anymore

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kitty71

I mean she will know i block her I just dont want her to follow me anymore

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