People don't want to be friends with a Pakistani true or false?

Question

I've come to the fact the reason I've never had friends is because I'm Pakistani. I'm not fat or disfigured or anything. But people just don't want to get to know me. I never had friends in high school because of it people made assumptions because of my skin colour that I don't drink and so they never invited me to parties and no one wanted to get to know me full stop.

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Answer 1

Bananaman177 | 252 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Guru

No, it can't be just that, you must be putting off a bad aura, maybe you are a good person, but you seem bad to people.

Sheep cannot tell the difference between sheepdogs and wolves, so maybe you are a good guy, but you are scaring off the sheep.

What happens if you try to be nicer, friendlier, and make conversations with people? Even if you are bad at this, people will usually meet you halfway if you can laugh at yourself a little and just keep trying. If someone is nasty to you, then ignore them and concentrate on meeting new people. Try to just make a conversation with one new person per day.

This is good for you even if they don't become a friend.

And you can have surprisingly good conversations by asking somewhat corny questions, like, "Have you read anything good lately?" Usually people like to talk as long as the subject is themselves and what they think about things.

Tell me if this helps or not, I may have other advice for a specific problem.

Asker

1 mo
When I do try to make friends they usually turn on me or find a way to turn on me and then the frenemies in the group start and then the real friends have a choice between me or the group and they always choose them over me.
Bananaman177

1 mo
Stay away from groups, try to make friends with one other loner, then you two be a group and bring in more people one at a time.
Asker

1 mo
I did try that once it ironically did work but then he pursued a group and invited me the group rejected me and he chose them over me. But to be honest going for one person actually worked for a little bit.
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Bananaman177

1 mo
Stick with it, try again.
Asker

1 mo
Maybe but I don't think I have that kind of stamina to devote to people that quick. Well ironically a day in lockdown is a day in the life of me.

Answer 2

Asker

When I do try to make friends they usually turn on me or find a way to turn on me and then the frenemies in the group start and then the real friends have a choice between me or the group and they always choose them over me.

Answer 3

Bananaman177

Stay away from groups, try to make friends with one other loner, then you two be a group and bring in more people one at a time.

Answer 4

Asker

I did try that once it ironically did work but then he pursued a group and invited me the group rejected me and he chose them over me. But to be honest going for one person actually worked for a little bit.

Answer 5

Bananaman177

Stick with it, try again.

Answer 6

Asker

Maybe but I don't think I have that kind of stamina to devote to people that quick. Well ironically a day in lockdown is a day in the life of me.

Answer 7

Liam_Hayden

Guru

Well, yes, there will be bigots almost anywhere, but still maybe try harder to meet people? Go do things that you enjoy where other people tend to be. For example, if you like basketball go down to the blacktop and start shooting, even by yourself. Someone will have an odd number of people and invite you to play. If you like surfing, just go out and surf. Yeah, some of the people are jerks but where I am most of us locals will befriend you and give you tips on when and where the best swell tend to be. Of fill in the blank with what you enjoy. I'm a lily white Christian guy. My friend group includes Christians, a Jew, a sort of Muslim (she eats bacon and celebrates Christmas so I question her faithfulness), agnostics, atheists, whites, blacks, Latinos, Asians, and the aforementioned girl from Syria. If you look around you can find people who will love and accept you as you are.

Asker

1 mo
Maybe it is my location Jesus did say men were born with evil but some walk the light and those who walk the light will have eternal life.

Answer 8

Asker

Maybe it is my location Jesus did say men were born with evil but some walk the light and those who walk the light will have eternal life.

Answer 9

Anonymous

Why wouldn’t anyone want to be friends with a Pakistani loll

Asker

1 mo
Unfortunately something I can't explain.

Answer 10

Asker

Unfortunately something I can't explain.

Answer 11

TheUniqueOne96 | 185 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Guru

False.

Not everyone is an idiotic bigot who can't understand that people are individuals.

I too come from a Pakistani background.

Answer 12

Anonymous

Indians don't. Other Muslims might. I could probably be friends with a Pakistani girl, if she wasn't radicalized, but not a Pakistani men. I'm sorry, but as a Christian, I don't trust Muslims to be loyal to me or have my back. Too many bad experiences. Plus, I don't want the FBI on my ass.

Asker

1 mo
... FBI can't watch you because you're muslim. As not sure if religion has anything to do with loyalty.

Answer 13

Asker

... FBI can't watch you because you're muslim. As not sure if religion has anything to do with loyalty.

Answer 14

Pete671 | 135 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Explorer

sure why not?, it's destiny who we meet and I would love to learn more about your country and culture,,,

Answer 15

Anonymous

it tied to be friend with the pekistan but they tell me that they have enuff friend and that they alrerady busy on Saturday. on Saturday I could see them at home, where they alsways are. no events

Answer 16

serious | 1.8K opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Master

Maybe it is true, not sure though.

Answer 17

Dave31989

Yoda

of course... not

people can be friends with whoever they want to be

fuck racism

Answer 18

Jmmmfi4 | 220 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Guru

Probably think you're in the Taliban

Asker

1 mo
Yup probably why at least from the younger generation.

Answer 19

Asker

Yup probably why at least from the younger generation.

Answer 20

AkshiJanjua | 120 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Yoda

I am Indian but we can be friends

Answer 21

Anonymous

True , damn right.

People don't want to be friends with a Pakistani true or false?

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