Girls, Would you get suspicious that a guy friend might like you if he texts you on Christmas Day “Merry Christmas! x”?

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Yes I’d think he likes me - it’s flirtatious

No it’s nice

It’s creepy

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Answer 1

sd1223

Xper 7

It’s just being nice, a lot of people text Merry Christmas to each other, I have a friend with a long term girlfriend and if he texted me Merry Christmas I wouldn’t think anything of it.

Asker

1 mo
What if they added “I miss you.” To the end of it?
sd1223

1 mo
I mean are you an ex to this person?
sd1223

1 mo
If you’re really just a friend to them and you haven’t seen them in a while, that’s ok to say.
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Asker

1 mo
If a friend said that, how would you feel?
sd1223

1 mo
I mean if it’s someone that’s a friend, I wouldn’t think anything of it. If it’s not something they say a lot then I may think why they’re saying it.
Asker

1 mo
Would you get suspicious and think he’s being flirty or that he might like you as more than a friend?
sd1223

1 mo
Like I said if it’s not something that he says to me all the time then I would think he likes me, why else would you be saying that? You can miss friends and just like them as that.
Asker

1 mo
Is that a bad thing?
sd1223

1 mo
It’s not. I’m guessing whoever you’re thinking of texting that to, you either like her or you don’t and don’t want her to get that impression. Which one is it?
Asker

1 mo
I like her.
sd1223

1 mo
In that case I'd say go for it. If she doesn't know already, you should tell her how you feel about her. You'll never know if you don't try. For all you know she could feel the same way about you and you guys could start something beautiful together.

Answer 2

Asker

What if they added “I miss you.” To the end of it?

Answer 3

sd1223

I mean are you an ex to this person?

Answer 4

sd1223

If you’re really just a friend to them and you haven’t seen them in a while, that’s ok to say.

Answer 5

Asker

If a friend said that, how would you feel?

Answer 6

sd1223

I mean if it’s someone that’s a friend, I wouldn’t think anything of it. If it’s not something they say a lot then I may think why they’re saying it.

Answer 7

Asker

Would you get suspicious and think he’s being flirty or that he might like you as more than a friend?

Answer 8

sd1223

Like I said if it’s not something that he says to me all the time then I would think he likes me, why else would you be saying that? You can miss friends and just like them as that.

Answer 9

Asker

Is that a bad thing?

Answer 10

sd1223

It’s not. I’m guessing whoever you’re thinking of texting that to, you either like her or you don’t and don’t want her to get that impression. Which one is it?

Answer 11

Asker

I like her.

Answer 12

sd1223

In that case I'd say go for it. If she doesn't know already, you should tell her how you feel about her. You'll never know if you don't try. For all you know she could feel the same way about you and you guys could start something beautiful together.

Answer 13

laceyylove23

Xper 4

he's just being nice.
most people wish their friends merry Christmas.

Asker

1 mo
What if they added “I miss you” to the end of it?
laceyylove23

1 mo
loads of my guy friends say i miss you just like a general thing. depends on your bond w him, and if its a bit random because you don't say i miss u to each other.

Answer 14

Asker

What if they added “I miss you” to the end of it?

Answer 15

laceyylove23

loads of my guy friends say i miss you just like a general thing. depends on your bond w him, and if its a bit random because you don't say i miss u to each other.

Answer 16

TessCasie

Xper 5

Wait! What? Why?
Huh 🤔

Why do you think it’s suspicious?

Answer 17

JustRollTheDice | 228 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Guru

Nah especially if they're from the uk where that's a done thing

Asker

1 mo
What if they added “I miss you” to the end of it?
JustRollTheDice

1 mo
Nope, don't overthink things just go with the flow

Answer 18

Asker

What if they added “I miss you” to the end of it?

Answer 19

JustRollTheDice

Nope, don't overthink things just go with the flow

Answer 20

Paris13 | 3.7K opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Master

"B" Is Best from the Rest. xxoo

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