Which is better : go alone in a vacation or go with a family who doesn't value you and brings toxic people with them to ruin things?

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My mom and dad knows those toxic people very well.
Still my dad has started to bring his toxic friends, who bring their drama causing adult child in every vacation.

I never got to visit abroad or better places in my country but since we started my parents started to accept those toxic people and now they're even gonna plan every vacation to good places with them.

My college and career is already filled with enough drama and pretending to act with people.
I want a peaceful and toxic free vacation.

I really lost myself because I have a to stay with those toxic people while my mom enjoys solo and dad is busy with his friend !!!

Answer 1

JoshMacDonald

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They don’t but that’s also the benefit of when you start to work to organize your own vacations.

Asker

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Yea I'm gonna go alone or maybe with a buddy if she's free. I'm not going with people who try to push me to deal with toxic energy. What am I dealing for? They're aren't helpful for my career field or business so why should I put up a free act for those toxic people?
JoshMacDonald

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If your parents ask, be honest, tell them you don’t like going on vacations with them because you get stuck with their toxic kid.
Asker

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I TOLD THEM but they aren't listening. Not only their kid but my parents also disappear. They call it a family vacation but it isn't.

Answer 2

Asker

Yea I'm gonna go alone or maybe with a buddy if she's free. I'm not going with people who try to push me to deal with toxic energy. What am I dealing for? They're aren't helpful for my career field or business so why should I put up a free act for those toxic people?

Answer 3

JoshMacDonald

If your parents ask, be honest, tell them you don’t like going on vacations with them because you get stuck with their toxic kid.

Answer 4

Asker

I TOLD THEM but they aren't listening. Not only their kid but my parents also disappear. They call it a family vacation but it isn't.

Answer 5

Sam_The_Savage

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Alone is always best.
You find yourself. I go most of the time.

Which is better : go alone in a vacation or go with a family who doesn't value you and brings toxic people with them to ruin things?

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