Ok and when they are both of our kids and I am his wife? Then what? And should he say it out loud to me is more of what I’m asking? Constantly in my face.
The question is again what does this have to do with you? None of what you talk about has anything to do with you and he all ready had this long before you came into the picture. If you can't respect that you need to move on. Because what that sounds like to me that you're extremely needy and you're lacking love. He telling you to respect his boundaries or else you're going to go for Ben make him not want to be with you. When you are his wife then he will prioritize you equally as the children. it should be common sense to you.
I’m not talking about sacrifice. I’m asking should it be verbally shoved in my face constantly? I already had the conversation with him about his child coming first.
If it's coming completely out of nowhere, maybe not. If it's in response to you asking him to do something before his kid, then yes. Or asking him to do something that affects his kid, even if you don't intend it to, then it should be made clear that the kid is factored heavily into the decision.
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Thank you. I feel like there is no need to constantly be saying it to me when we already agreed that his son comes first
No need to say it your his girl miss you in different and special way too