If you end up holding hands & cuddling with a female friend, should you talk about it?

[slatyb]

What would you say? I really liked holding your hand and cuddling? The presumption is that if you didn't like it you wouldn't do it. Just go with the flow and see what happens next. After I divorced and started dating, I found that simply being patient worked very well. Women let me know when they wanted me to take their hand or kiss them or more. Usually after three dates they were inviting me in.

[WindAtMyBack]

Not in detail. If you have someone you are interested in, it's OK and normal to talk about it. But don't kiss and tell. What goes on behind closed doors stays there. Don't be that guy who likes to brag about this and think he's cool. He's not cool at all.