How do you get over feelings and remain friends?

Question

Primarily, it's a very emotional and mental connection. But just isn't appropriate and I really want to just remain friends. Also time apart for a few months doesn't really work... So im thinking it has to be a behavior change.

Answer 1

JPrez

Yoda

Every person is different but for me, if there was relationship that didn't work out, I would need a clean break and not have any ties to that person and not contact them again. I would say if you're gonna still be friends, that means you're still having some interactions with them and that would tend to bring back the feelings. If you do that, then try a short break from them with no contact and immerse yourself into something else, whether that's physical fitness, gardening, traveling etc.

chapawapa

11 d
We have never been in a relationship. Just feelings if that counts as one I don't know. Hmmm think lll only talk to him in a group setting and not one on one anymore.

Answer 2

chapawapa

We have never been in a relationship. Just feelings if that counts as one I don't know. Hmmm think lll only talk to him in a group setting and not one on one anymore.

Answer 3

Jjpayne | 1.6K opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Master

I think you both need to find another person romantically then you can stop having that on and off, and just focus on platonic friendship

chapawapa

10 d
Yeah. I think I need. to shift my romantic feelings else where. Lol. It works. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Thanks JJ always the best
Jjpayne

10 d
Welcome 😊 glad I could help

Answer 4

chapawapa

Yeah. I think I need. to shift my romantic feelings else where. Lol. It works. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Thanks JJ always the best

Answer 5

Jjpayne

Welcome 😊 glad I could help

Answer 6

FeralChihuahua

Xper 4

It’ll be weird if y’all stay friends, you’ll just end up drifting apart

chapawapa

11 d
I think a drift would be good too. Like a slow goodbye 👋

Answer 7

chapawapa

I think a drift would be good too. Like a slow goodbye 👋

Answer 8

bklynbadboy1 | 717 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Guru

Just get back into life and doing you and the things you like to do. And I love your profile pic you look really cute

chapawapa

11 d
I am doing me. Never stopped. *cool smirk* I do me
bklynbadboy1

11 d
Good your gonna be fine
chapawapa

11 d
Fine with what? Im just trying to maintain friendships. 🤷🏽‍♀️ hopefully I can

Answer 9

chapawapa

I am doing me. Never stopped. *cool smirk* I do me

Answer 10

bklynbadboy1

Good your gonna be fine

Answer 11

chapawapa

Fine with what? Im just trying to maintain friendships. 🤷🏽‍♀️ hopefully I can

Answer 12

msc545 | 257 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Yoda

Could you provide a bit more detail please? This is very vague.

chapawapa

11 d
🤷🏽‍♀️... That's all the info I want share...
We've never dated. Always friends. I want to loose my feelings so we can continue to be friends.
msc545

11 d
Your feelings are a part of you. You cannot just "lose" them.
chapawapa

10 d
Guess I got to set him up with someone. Only way lol 😆
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msc545

10 d
That will probably work.

Answer 13

chapawapa

🤷🏽‍♀️... That's all the info I want share...
We've never dated. Always friends. I want to loose my feelings so we can continue to be friends.

Answer 14

msc545

Your feelings are a part of you. You cannot just "lose" them.

Answer 15

chapawapa

Guess I got to set him up with someone. Only way lol 😆

Answer 16

msc545

That will probably work.

Answer 17

COMMODOREII | 960 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Master

Yep a behavioural change for sure. 😎

chapawapa

10 d
For sure

Answer 18

chapawapa

For sure

Answer 19

In_Trance | 595 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Master

You don't. Men and women can't be friends

chapawapa

11 d
Lies
In_Trance

11 d
If you already have an opinion why tf would you ask everyone else's?
That said, if your opinion was accurate, you'd have no need to ask
chapawapa

11 d
Ass wipe... And learn to read... If u can't relate, why answer the question. It's apparent you cannot be friends with a female. Which is fine. Don't care. But males and females can be friends regardless of ur preference...

What was my opinion? I asked a question for suggestions. Which u failed to answer and inserted your unrelated opinion to my question because it didn't fit YOUR norm... Oh well tough luck.

Later

Answer 20

chapawapa

Lies

Answer 21

In_Trance

If you already have an opinion why tf would you ask everyone else's?
That said, if your opinion was accurate, you'd have no need to ask

Answer 22

chapawapa

Ass wipe... And learn to read... If u can't relate, why answer the question. It's apparent you cannot be friends with a female. Which is fine. Don't care. But males and females can be friends regardless of ur preference...

What was my opinion? I asked a question for suggestions. Which u failed to answer and inserted your unrelated opinion to my question because it didn't fit YOUR norm... Oh well tough luck.

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