How do you feel if you received this message from your dearest friend?

[DJB72]

If we're geographically close enough I'll be at their door within 24 hours. I had a similar issue with the person who at the time was my best friend and who I had been planning to ask if she wanted to be more than just friends. That time I made the mistake of stepping back when it was actually a cry for help but I was too young to realise it.

Consequently she ended up getting together with another guy. When we got back in touch some years later, she told me if I'd gone to her in person that time and told her how I felt she'd have said yes. By that point I was married and she had been through hell with him and left him and married another guy who was then abusive to her when she got pregnant. She left him before the baby was born.

I'm glad we're friends again, but there's a part of me that can't help wondering what would have happened if we'd tried back then.

[Jjpayne]

I would try to message them back but at that point all you can do is share your feelings. Oddly enough, I got that message myself from a friend and I wrote a heartfelt detailed letter back and now we are still friends to this day

[courtney06]

If that's a friendship I really value, I'd do the best I can to try to work things out. I'd ask them if we can talk about this and why they feel this way and go from there. As sad as a message like this is, it's better than them ghosting me.

[psychoticanimallover]

Presumably I already know this to be true so I’m relieved it’s not just me.

[locutus9999]

need more context. but in general... the nature of friendhip includes... some friendships are forever, some falls, some friends will betray you, and some frienships will loose contact cause life. accept that, and don't feel to bad about it. you have a long life to find new friendships with better nature and outcome. But before you walk away.. arrange a meeting and hear what have she to say, the why and most importantly the whow come to this, not all that it breacks cannot be repaired, but to know, you need to see if is posible. I wish you the best!

[WesBrewer]

I would reply "oof, well I guess you can do what you want, if you need me again I won't ghost you" and I wouldn't care too much, probably because I don't very attached to people, but hey I'm hoping I'll be attached to my girlfriend but I haven't had one in a while so I don't know.

[DanaeAdam5]

I would be so concerned about my friends wellbeing and anxious about me losing our friendship.

I would call them and ask them if everything is ok and if they really don't think that we can work on whatever issues they think that our friendship is having.

[jennifer_bloom]

It might be if they are opposite gender that they found a girlfriend who does not want them to associate with attractive females - I lost a friend that way years ago

[Hangry22]

That last line "I just feel sad" would make me talk to her more and find out the reason and try to work things out. It jut seems like a scream for attention

[JackSmy]

People change, sometimes that happens. Maybe send back a reason why you shouldn't end your friendship?
A few times, one sent me this, and I was thinking "THANK GOD!!!"

[Darcia]

I wouldn’t care. I rarely have anyone text me all day. So it wouldn’t matter. I’ll probably just ignore it and message them the next day or week.

[Agape93]

Oh he’s getting a phone call immediately. If that was legit, and it was meant for me, I’d be devastated

[DizzyDesii]

I did. And i said ftb, good riddance. Dear friends can become dear POS real quick

[Kashelybee]

Stomach would probably drop while I wonder what went wrong

[iseekpinetrees]

Id be like alright bye. Friends come n go. Its normal.

[sheikalana]

If nothing happened for them to change their opinion I would feel very confused.

[Sevenpointfive]

that sucks. i guess you fell apart. i'd probably say that makes me sad and you're right/wrong

[Ally247]

I'd fight it. If you have something good in your life, you need to hold onto it.

[FakeNIK]

Well this has already happened with me, she wanted to be in a relationship & I was already clear, she said we can't continue like this. It felt bad at first but I respect her so I said okay

[KyleAbe]

Id feel hurt to be honest. But i have learnt over the years to be cold. so my reply would be cold as ice and borderline mean. That would be the only way id be able to manage that.

[chriscdi]

it will hurt but id take it like a soldier, shit happens, im guessing this just happened to you?

[Wise4myage]

I would feel really sad if it was a close friend, but I would try to get an explanation.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Adios mate, if you ain't gonna give a valid reason fuck you 😂

[Dweezil]

If you did nothing to offend that person you should ask why.

Maybe the person is taking some mental health issues like major depression.

[Guanfei]

I did. It made me pretty devastated for a month or two. She was my best friend and I loved her more than anything at that time.

[AkshiJanjua]

I can't see my friends writing such emotional messages to me lol. If they did i will probably make fun of them.

[Anonymous]

I'd walk into the next room and be like "You good, dawg?"

[Gedaria]

I would reply. Come over, I can help you not to be sad...

[OceanMelon]

I'd be heart broken, but there were probably sighs that that was gonna happen.

[Lostguuy]

I would feel hurt , because a real friend wouldn’t say that or feel that way ,

[jl25sc]

K thanks bye. It'll hurt but move on. And find new hobbies and thats where you'll make new friends.

[Snakeyes7]

I would at least try to talk him out of it but if it ends, it ends.

[the_sinner]

I’d think about what went wrong and if I find a reason then I’d respect the decision

[Yellovv]

That means you are changed a lot, and that person doesn't like it..

[Anonymous]

Hurt and than I would try and see if there is anything I can do to change things if there isn’t I would accept it and let them move on if that was what they really wanted

[Pete671]

They sound depressed, I would try and help them, I would email them, tell them that I will always be there for them no matter what they've done or how they are feeling,,,

[OfDeath]

I would feel vetted that I had wasted my time to befriend someone so fickle.

[JosyJosy]

Strange, cause we talked like a few minutes ago

[COMMODOREII]

Dang. That sucks. *hugs*

[Mrobody]

Maybe I will feel upset

[pizzalovershouse]

Sounds like a end of a friend ship

[andy530]

I’d be confused

[dafidedafide33]

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